What should you do when a married woman kisses you?

Answer 1

Since I don't believe it's possible to "fall in love" with someone instantly, I have to assume (hopefully I am wrong) that you have been carrying on with this "other woman" for some time, and if that's the case, you probably did it behind your wife's back. Now you seem to want someone to help you to man up and leave the wife for the other woman. You should have been more of a man and told your wife you weren't satisfied with her back when you started up with this other woman. Since you didn't, you need to now be a man and tell your wife what's going on. If she is willing to forgive you and you are willing (as you should be) to give up this other woman, then you are already in the place you need to be. If your wife decides she can't (or won't) forgive you and she wants you out of her life, then you might have the illusion that you're now "free' to be with this other woman. Let me tell you something about that. If she's a woman really worth anything, she'll drop you like a hot potato, because after all, if you'll cheat on your wife with her, why wouldn't you cheat on her with someone else? If she doesn't drop you, then she's rather silly if she thinks that after having stolen you from another woman, no other woman can come along and steal you from her, in which case, you shouldn't want her either. If you do, then perhaps you deserve each other.

You be honest to yourself and your wife before anything happens. You took a vow to love, honor and cherish. It sounds like you didnt understand some of that. Falling in love with someone while you are in a committed relationship only points to one thing and that is that your not committed enough. You have the right to be happy and should be honest with your wife, now. Dont forget if the grass isn't greener on the other side you may not be able to come back over the hill. Good luck and think clearly.

Well I think I may disagree with the other ladies above..Yes, they do make some valid points but love isn't just something that you say about women, men have to build up the courage to say it half the time and your saying it about another woman who is not your wife, which says a lot... I have had a recent experience and It's really taught me a lot, my ex who is married and got married for the wrong reasons, his wife was pregnant and he felt like he needed to marry her to completely provide for her, On his wedding day he stood there up at the alter and I was sitting in the crowd, I felt someone looking at me and I look up and to my surprise it's him he was starring at me, like he was lost, like he needed me to stand up and say something but I shrugged it off and acted as if I didn't see him. later that year he asked me and my fiance to go on vacation with them and of course my fiance said yes. We were over at his house a couple weeks before we were going on vacation and my fiance fell asleep and I had to leave for work he walked me to the door and proceeded to tell me that if I ever needed anything he was always there and he will always be there for me and Then he went in for a hug, and we found ourselves face to face, noses touching with nothing to say... He hugged me again and then I left after that he began calling me everyday, and After a couple days i had to see him, I went to see him and we just ended up staring at each other and knowing that what we were feeling was wrong but we felt it deep inside. He kissed me and from that moment we made each other truly happy.. He called me everyday and on vacation when everyone fell asleep he would rub my feet and kiss me and just stare at me and I loved it, I loved him.... He is the man of my dreams, he is just someone Else's man and I use to think badly about women who did what I'm doing but no one knows what I've been through and if the love of your life was with someone else but didn't love them and loved you, what would you do? How would you feel, you can't hold back those feelings, they'll show through. I love him and always will, we have recently taking a break for him to figure out what he wants but I love him so much that whatever he decides I will be happy with... You love who you love and you never hold back because life is too short and you need to live it with the ones that you love and who love you.

Answer 2

You stop immediately. No matter how bad your marriage is, you have no right to be having this sort of relationship with a woman who is not your wife. You need to get counseling--alone and with your wife--and, if that doesn't succeed, end the relationship with her. You made a commitment--a legal, social, emotional, physical, mental contract--to one woman and it's your duty to uphold it. Be a man. Sever the relationship with the other woman.

Answer 3

First of all I will ask him how long does he knows this woman, and why did he end up kissing her. It depends to what's going on with them. Maybe your husband is telling you the truth, maybe not. Your wondering why he confess to you. Could it be that someone saw them when they were kissing. You need to be smarter here, make sure you know every details or else it might come back to you and bite you.

Answer 4

if your wife kissed another man- shame on her! But lets be realistic here- she might be doing it because he might be her partner in work, or because she is related to him, and this does not mean that she is having an affair.

Dnt be stupid and dnt jump 2 perdictions- you need evidence before you can make your case. If you find out that he has been cheating on you divorce him- this is a free country so do what you please...

Answer 5

Tell her to go to her husband and kiss him.