What do you do when you're still in love with your cheating husband without sinking to his level?

* You can suggest marriage counseling so the both of you can learn tools of communication. With communication each spouse should feel free to express their needs in their marriage or the lack there of. If he refuses to go to marriage counseling then you will always have a trust issue with him as far as him being loyal to you and he may cheat again. Give him the choice of marriage counseling or 'hit the bricks and don't let the door slam you in the butt.' This may shock him into realizing you are not going to put up with his cheating and he may make an effort to rectify the problem, but if not then you are better off to know now just what sort of man he is and move forward in your life. You deserve better.
---- Though just a suggestion, but Kathy Lee Gifford's method was to have sex with him 3-4 times a day, every day, for weeks.