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What do you do when you and your friend like the same guy but she liked him before you?

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2005-09-20 04:37:10
2005-09-20 04:37:10

All you have to do is remain quiet and stand by. You've forgotten someone ... the guy! Your friend could try very hard to see this guy on a regular basis, but in many cases, the guy bypasses that girl and looks at her friend. If you're meant to be together you will be. Just sit quietly, chit chat, and let the cards fall where they may. Make sure he gets a good glimpse of you and hears what you have to say in a conversation when out in a crowd. The guy and your friend are not married so he's fair game, but be wise ... never let a man come between a good friendship in a case such as yours. Have patience. Good luck Marcy

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