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You're one smart lady for telling him that. The ball is in his court and until he gets that help DON'T TAKE HIM BACK! If he tells you he's seeing a psychiatrist then go with him to be sure he really is and that he's keeping his appointments. Unfortunately, men who are abusive (even women who are) seldom get professional help, so I wouldn't wait around too long. I was married the first time to a mentally/physically abusive guy who cheated on me. It took me 3 1/2 years to realize the mess I was in. Like you I gave him the "heave ho" and I left filing for divorce. I knew deep inside there was nothing I could do to change what he was because that has to come within the person themselves. I didn't bother with our friends any longer (for fear I would be connected to him in some way) made new friends, got a new job and had the time of my life. I had fun, gave myself time to know who and what I was about and realized that my destiny was in my own hands and I didn't have take bad behavior from anyone. I became extremely independent, but not to a fault that I couldn't love again. I knew that when I could say I didn't need a man in my life to look after myself, that's when I knew I was ready for a new relationship. A couple of years after my divorce I met a wonderful man and we've been married 34 years this August. I hope you are as lucky. Good luck Marcy

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Q: What do you have to do to get your husband to come back to you after you told him he is abusive and needs to get some help?
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