What does a guy want when he says he loves you but doesn't want to be with you right now and keeps you at a distance so you can't move on?

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He isn't stopping you from moving on, YOU are the one stopping yourself from moving on. Unless someone you love can commit within reason then one does not hang around. If this guy loved you he'd want to be with you and he either isn't all that interested in you or he likes playing the field. I suggest you tell him to take a hike or at least start dating others again and see how he feels when he realizes he hasn't any control of you. You are in charge of your own destiny. Good luck Marcy This man knows how much you like him, but by doing this he gets to control you and keep you close. Break this tie, if he makes contact tell him you cant wait around forever and are therefore moving on, even if he says he wants to get back with you, tell him you need to move on, because he will keep on doing this. Don't communicate with him, until you can trust yourself and your emotions not to give in to him. This is not a healthy set up for you, and you need to make it clear that you wont wait like this, stop living in the hope of this relationship starting up again, its time to take your life in your own hands - you are in control. Simple. He wants to play games with you. He is not ready to be tied down but he is so selfish he is not ready to give you up either.My suggestion is to move on you are better than that. This guy doesn't want to be in a relationship..he wants to keep his options open. If you are looking for a relationship then he is not good for you..Move on to someone else you are interested in who is exciting. If you don't, he will come around when he wants, whenever he wants..and all you'd be doing is waiting for him..