What does an abuser do when you dump him?

In most cases your abuser considers you a "loss" and will move on to finding someone else he can abuse. Consider yourself lucky and never think twice about this guy. There are great programs for Abused Women, and I suggest, if you have just left an abuser or you know someone that has, to seek out this help. They help you gain your self esteem and confidence, they counsel you, help you find work if you don't have one, and will also help with legal counsel if need be. If you have children they will help in this area as well.