What does it mean if your boyfriend breaks up with you because he said he can't trust you yet he says you are the most amazing girl he has ever met and wants to be your best friend?
If your boyfriend breaks up with you because he said he can't
trust you, but says that you are the most amazing girl that he has
ever met and wants to be your best friend - I would take a step
back and consider this carefully. First - ask what he thinks you
did that made him feel you are not trustworthy. This is valuable
information. Do not immediately jump down his throat about it. He
may simply have trust issues that make it difficult for him to
trust others. OR, you may have broken his trust. Building trust can
take some time. Take the time and be friends and keep things
casual. During this time, COMMUNICATE. If you want the relationship
to work out, learn to communicate really well so you can learn to
trust each other. Really be 'best friends' - best friends requires
a lot of trust too - so you'll still have to work at it. Remember
to apologize for what you have done, but do not take the blame for
things you have not done. Be honest - and stick to your own truth,
and he will eventually see that you are worthy of trust and come
around. It doesn't sound like an excuse to get out of a
relationship, but it might be, if he has trust issues with women.
Best to stay calm and honest and be careful of getting into a
relationship with someone who can't trust you. You will never be
happy if you are not fully trusted by your partner. Take care.