What does it mean if your ex-boyfriend who initiated the breakup hasn't contacted you in two months but tells your friends he still loves you and not to tell you?

He may have broken up with you for practical reasons. Not all split-ups are due to cheating or loss of attraction. He may still genuinely love you but has plans and dreams into which you don't fit. That's sad, but I'd try not to dwell on it -- or him. If you wish, you could try giving him a call, just to see how he's doing. But I wouldn't mention getting back together. If that's what he wants to, he'll bring it up. But just one call. And if nothing comes of it, then move on.