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What does it mean if your husband confesses on his own to you that he got drunk and cheated and that he wanted you to get checked out by a doctor?

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2006-08-28 06:36:22

He probably loves you so much that he felt so guilty what he had

done that he couldn't stand it any longer having it eat at him that

he had to confess to you that he did something very awful. Most

guys wouldn't confess on their own only unless they got caught

first then they would have to explain but in this case it sounds

like he couldn't live with himself keeping it a secret so he had to

confess because he loves you so much even if he knows that he

probably could lose his wife and family. =Answer= People make

mistakes and obviously your husband did, but I respect him for

being honest with you even though I'm sure it has broken your

heart. He probably doesn't remember much of his evening if he was

drunk or even who the girl really was (could have been a

prostitute) and he wants you to go to the doctor to be sure he

hasn't passed on HIV, AIDS or Herpes. Hopefully you will be fine. I

know you'll probably be angry, but give the guy a chance. He could

have so easily have hid this. After you are checked out by the

family doctor (ASAP) and I'm sure things will be OK, it's time to

sit down together and go over your relationship. Sometimes all of

us could use a good kick in the slats every so often to get us

started in our marriages because life is hectic and sometimes we

can forget what is really important in our lives. Good luck!


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