Asked in Cheating
What does it mean when your boyfriend has dreams of cheating on you?
January 20, 2008 12:33AM
It could mean many things, and it might not have anything to do with you. Carl Jung would say that the women in your boyfriend´s dream (including you) are a representation of his soul. Freud would say that the dream is a form of wish fulfillment. In other words, your boyfriend´s dream could have been inspired by a passing thought that he had during the day, or it could be a metaphor for some situation in his life. If you are questioning your boyfriend´s fidelity or his desire to be with you, the best thing to do is to talk to him about it. Maybe your boyfriend was as confused as you are by the dream that he had and he wanted to share it with you. Maybe he is using this dream as a way to open up a conversation about breaking up (a little bit immature, if that is the case). If you feel secure in your relationship with him, then there is no reason to worry about the dream that he had. If you don´t feel secure in your relatinship with him, let your feelings be your guide, and consider moving on.