What does it mean when your ex-boyfriend moves closer and closer to you at school and he's also letting himself go by not keeping up his personal appearance?
These are very serious red flags for you. NEVER be alone with
this ex of yours and try to stay around friends. When walking or
riding home from school stay in a group and NEVER be alone with
this young man. Let your parents know! If home alone DO NOT ANSWER
THE DOOR without looking to see who it is first. If he bothers you
at home by phone refuse to answer his calls. He shows all the signs
of obsession with you and it's not normal obsession. He has let
himself go in appearance so this means he is thinking about you a
great deal and probably not getting a lot of sleep and his mind-set
isn't the best. Hygiene is his last concern. This could end up in a
dangerous situation. There is no way you can deal with this alone
in school. If you ignore him it will make him angrier and if you
smile and try to be nice to him he will misunderstand and think he
still has a chance with you. This will not only involve you, but
should you have another boyfriend this could endanger him as well.
Your ex will see your new boyfriend as the reason for the split-up
and he will go after him. Please tell your parents and school
counselor and keep yourself safe!