The divorce should have included a motion to this effect, otherwise not required to.
What state are you in? ohio
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No, divorce is just a way out sometimes. It depends on how much remorse the cheating spouse has, and if both are willing to work towards making it work. If the spouse who didn't cheat hangs it over the others head, then it definitely wont work. If the spouse forgives the other, and looks to a brighter future then nothing is impossible!
It is the court - not the wife (or husband) who grants the divorce. In most states, if one spouse files for a divorce, the court will grant the divorce (assuming there are no jurisdictional issues). She may not want a divorce, she may not agree to a divorce, but she cannot prevent you from obtaining a divorce.
go to your landlord, tell them the circumstances, and MOVE OUT! Do not let your exhusband hold you hostage because he is too childish.
then that means they still want to be with you or are doing something that could affect you financially
You should seek legal advice and file divorce papers against her. Your lawyer will draw up papers stating why you are filing for divorce. In most States a divorce would be granted for several reasons, one being 'alienation.'
Maybe because that spouse yours loves you too much to want to have a divorce as well. You need to work something out with your spouse and your lawyer, or get Time on your side and wait it out.
@#$% him!
If you are married you can file for divorce and have him removed from the home or at the very least you will end up splitting everything down the middle and each of you will have to move on. It would wise of you to see a lawyer for advice and not put up with his antics. He is selfish; self centered and has no respect for himself; his mistress or you. Be strong and get control of your life by seeing a lawyer.
I'd get a lawyer as fast as I could.
In Florida you publish a notice in the city newspaper she is know to live in and it might be the same in Oklahoma. Consult the divorce laws with a paralegal who will do it for a small fee. File for divorce based on abadonment.