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What if you suspect your lover is cheating but they are willing to confront the person or people that said they were?

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2005-11-29 22:14:43
2005-11-29 22:14:43

"Confronting" the person who said this stuff won't prove or disprove anything. Even if your signifigant other is cheating, he won't admit it. Check up on your lover's phone calls, time spent away from you and make your own decision. Don't tell your lover what this other person or anyone else says--he has nothing to worry about if he isn't cheating, right? Many people who are cheating go on the defensive--claiming that the person who is accusing them is lying, or sometimes accusing you of cheating. Id let him do it. Let him confront those who say he is cheating. Watch his body language, his eyes...All will tell you the truth.

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