What if your spouse has cheated?

Answer 1

ANSWER:

One way you can solve your problem is talk, talk to your spouse and make sure that everything you need to tell him or her are all real. You need to ask your spouse why. With the information you get, you need to make a decision whether you want to forgive and move on to what your spouse did to you. Be strong and never loose your faith.

Answer 2

I can say in my twenty four years of marriage, my husband had no problem from household chores, kids, or in other words all of the above, and sex is not a problem at all except the in-laws most specially my MIL with an attitude. That was the time when we discuss things and had small fights. It was only 2 years ago that i saw emails of unfamiliar friends and one familiar pictures of a woman which includes half naked shots. I searched for more proof and emailed her but she denied at first. When I told her I have her pictures she started confessing and told me it happened four years ago and went on for more than a year. I broke in silence when my husband told me it is true.......that time, the other woman tells my husband that she is having a problem with her sex life, and is not satisfied with her husband. She told my husband that her friend is happy having an affair with a married man and she is satisfied. She asked my husband if they could try it together since they already knew each other well. I know that my husband should have avoided it in the first place. I know the reason is not enough to say that I deserved to be cheated. I felt pain inside that seem to end my life. For a time I have felt suicidal. I cried and prayed, read articles about forgiveness and things I thought would help me to heal. I try to move on each day, even when there are things, places and events that reminds me of my husbands lying and cheating, I pray fervently to accept and forgive my husband in able to survive with our marriage. Why, because I cannot just throw away the years of happiness that we had and most specially our children. Pain and suffering will always be a part of our lives but we have to learn from those experiences.

Answer 3

If your husband cheated on you, you'd either give him another chance for your marriage, or break up with him. If your husband cheats you will have to decide if the marriage is worth saving. In many cases, if a man cheats he will more than likely cheat again and you should move on. If he truly wants to change then you can set up marriage counseling.

Answer 4

Once a cheater almost always they will cheat again. You can file for separation and then divorce, or, you can directly file for divorce and save yourself more anquish. I suggest you see a lawyer and be sure of what your rights are. Ask family or friends if they know a good lawyer or, you can call the Bar Association and they will give you a list of reputable lawyers. I know how you must feel, because I caught my first husband cheating and I left him and filed for divorced. There were no children or properties involved, so I suggest if you have children, property (including your home) or other invested interests such a stocks/bonds, etc., you seek legal counsel. If you just walk out of the house he could charge you with abandonment or, if you have children, a possible kidnapping charge. It varies from State to State so it's wise to get that lawyer. Some lawyers will give you an hour of free legal advice. You can also make arrangements with your lawyer that your ex is responsible for the cost of the divorce if it's proved he did indeed cheat and with whom. I did with my ex husband. Marcy

Answer 5

Well, you can either dump him, or if he is remorse, and is TRULY sorry and you know it, give a second thought about him before you do something rational. ESPECIALLY if you have children.

Answer 6

give him a spyphone

Answer 7

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