How to let go of a true love?

Answer 1

I am very sorry you are going through this and I know you must feel like your life is falling apart. You are actually going through a very normal grieving period and it's OK to cry, feel badly and go through what you are, but in a few months it's time to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get back out in life. You are going to have to trust me when I tell you that although you may think this was your one true love, you haven't met the right person for you. Most of us have been through something similar in our lives and feel like our heart has been torn out of our bodies and we're left with an empty shell. We aren't listening to our own heart, and we seem to be blinded to what is good for us.

I am a great believer that no matter however painful, we are all on a path (each of us given the same equal shot) to meet that very special someone out there that is meant for us. Sometimes that special someone is right under our noses like a good friend that has been there always, yet sometimes it's feeling so down you want to crawl off in a dark corner and all of a sudden you look across a crowded room and there he is! You just know it! I believe in destiny and the fact we have to go down some wrong way streets before we find that person. Why? Because when we do finally meet them and if we are paying attention to what we feel; we've been through so much that as soon as you see that person in your life you know right then and there that's the person you love.

Love is giving not only sexually, but more importantly trust, honesty, loyalty, yet receiving these fine qualities back from that person you love.

Don't give up. You just haven't met that right person yet, and you will!

Good luckMarcy

Answeri think it is almost imposiable to get over that one true love because they aare the first one and you will always have them in your heart but you have to move on and contu=inue on with your life because the past is like a car if you are staring in the rear veiw mirrior you will crash into what is in frount of you and know one wants to do that because it hurt and mabey the one and true was not that person and you might miss the one and true if you don't pay attentionto what is going on take it from me it will come un expectedly

Answer 2

Time is the only thing that will help. I know that it does not sound like good advice right now, but whenever something really bad happens to me, time is the only thing that really helps me. As time goes by, it hurts less and less. Good luck and God Bless:)

Answer 3

this is hard to do because im in this position myself. its been a long time since my boyfriend nd i broke up nd im still not over him. well the things you could do is to well first of all don't do anything that would remind you of your ex and don't talk about him either, it'll just make u miss him/her even more. talk to your close friends since they know you better and they'll probably know what to say and they'll do anything to help you get over him. or just hangout with your friends, go out to the movies nd partys or something. or if your breakup was a misunderstanding or something you didnt mean to do, call your ex back and explain to them what happened and make sure they understand, it helps to take the burden of regret off. that's pretty much all you can do. you could risk getting another boyfriend but if you TRULY were in love with your ex, being with someone will probably only bring back memories and you'll do something stupid.

AnswerI agree on the above answer.. It's really hard to let go of the person you've ever love specially when you are too much attached to that person, as if you'll gonna die.. But it is said that if you really love a person you should know how to let go and accept the reality that things are not meant to be.. getting over is not easy its really hard to do, its a long process it takes a month or a year, but remember that when you've get over with it, it is somekind of achievements in life because you know that you become a better person after all and you will realized that life is more beautiful.

Answer 4

I am sorry to say, but you never really do. You can try lots of things like starting to date again, but the only thing that can really get you over the love of your life is falling in love with someone else.

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I agree with the above answer. You don't ever get over the love of your life but you have to find a way to move forward and live your life and be happy. I believe that there are reasons for the way things happen and sometimes when things don't work out the way that we would like for them to it's because there is something else meant for us down the road. Believe me, I understand what this is like. It is not fun at all but get involved with things you like doing such as hobbies, visit with friends, travel, do something different that you've always wanted to do. Time will help some but that person will always be in your heart.

And never forget, this person may have been the 'love of your life' so far, but your life isn't over and there is someone better who will come along!

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If you have met the love of your life, you do not get over it. I hear people say, "oh, just fall in love with someone else, there's others out there, you'll meet someone else and fall in love with them", etc....not true if you have met the love of your life. This is a whole different kind of thing. The whole "love of your life" saying should make the statement. It's a love like no other. A once in a lifetime kind of love. Unique. Rare. Special. Many people never find this kind of love. I am, well let's say, past my 30's. I thought I was in love a few times in the past. I met the love of my life a while back. No comparison at all. So...if you are a teenager, someone in their 20's, yes you will probably find someone later down the road that equals or surpasses that love. Not to say that it doesn't happen but at that age, especially teens, but not likely even though it may feel like it at the time. Once you have "loved" a few times and at the time it feels like love but may not really be. Maybe an infatuation. Maybe not. When and if you ever meet the "love of your life" you will never be the same. And, I am personally going through it, I don't believe you ever get over them. You just move forward and try to live your life the best you can. If I had my way, I would be with him but it's not possible right now. So, I'm living my life, single. I have no desire, interest, and don't even think it's possible to date someone else. Maybe sometime down the road but I don't really know that even. Only time will tell. I just stay very, very busy, I feel that if it's meant for us to be together someday we will, if not, maybe someday I'll meet someone else that grabs my heart, if not, then that's just the way it is. Just do the best that you can to move forward in your life and do productive things that will help you grow as a person.

YOU JUST DONT.

when you love someone... and they leave you, its difficult. esspecially when that person says its not your fault, and they want to be friends. because if you love them; truly, all you care about is their HAPPINESS. you will always miss them, but one thing from the above answers that i disagree with from the above answers, you shouldn't try to replace them : it just make the void they left in you, bigger and more apparent.

Answer 5

You just have too!

You love them loads but you gotta' do what's best for you, right?

Well, I dumped my boyfriend, and I still love him but have told nobody that I'm still in love.

I hope our school disco comes up soon then I can see him there and wear the most beautifulist clothes to attract his attention or go up 2 him and ask him to dance!!

Be hopeful.

You have to let go sometimes.

Just say, "I'm really sorry, (His/her name) but things arin't working out the way I thought they were going too, I'm sorry but, I think we should go our separate ways now....(Pause and silence, let him say anything he wants.) Sorry but.. anyway, you can find somebody better than me! I suppose this is good-bye then..."

Then just go! By the way, sorry you feel that you have 2 let go of your true love like I had 2 do with my bf. Love doesn't always last.....

Answer 6

Your first misconception is the notion that there is only one true love. If that were the case, most people would not have a life partner. Do you think if you were brought up in a different part of the world you would have still met the same person who is your only true love? I understand when a breakup happens that it hurts deeply. Still, there are many individuals out there who you could love just as much and even more. You have heard the saying 'time heals." This is true, only time will heal, and healing will come. In addition, if you are looking for a true love, you will find that person. He/she is out there! Try dating! I know it hurts, however it will take the edge off until you are totally back to normal. This happened to be once, and I thought my life was over. Still, I met someone else and today we are very happily married with three wonderful children. So you see, life doesn't come to an end when things like this happen. Although it may be hard at present, look forward to the future, and the one who will satisfy your needs, wants, and desires. That person is out there.

Answer 7

Well..it would be pretty hard..bu all you need to do is keep yourself occupied..

-Go workout, do exercise

-Get a job

-klean your room

-klean the house

-hang out with friends

-in a kouple of months you should be improving but you might never forget that person unless you end up hating them which you shouldn't.

just pray for them! You will be fine! its NOT the end of the world here people!

YOU'LL FIND SOMEONE NEW AND BETTER SOON! SO DONT TRIP!

Answer 8

realize that they are not the only person out there and accept the facts

Answer 9

Easy, eat chocolate and enjoy the simple single life, it works, trust me.