The word chilling means relaxing or just laying back and having a good time. This word has become a part of everyday phrases in the world. There is also an ebonics dictionary which contains words similar to this one.
Yes, the noun 'disrespect' is an abstract noun, a word for speech or behavior which shows a lack of regard for someone or something; a word for a concept. The word 'disrespect' is also a verb: disrespect, disrespects, disrespecting, disrespected.