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What is wrong with a guy who fantasizes about his girlfriend cheating on him?

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βˆ™ 2009-09-15 23:01:56

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Well, it is because you have a healthy sexual relationship with your GF and it seems like she is very active in bed. These fantasies are a result of you and her getting along very well. But despite the fact that you fantasize, you would like to be in the picture of your fantasy. As an onlooker or a part of 3some, not that you find out later that she did that. love with this person is secondary thing, depsite the fact that you cant fanthom the idea of seing her with another man, in order for you to grasp this notion, you have created this fantasy and i bet you already know whom that well endowed persons face looks like. maintain it as fantasy, regard it something, you would love to experience, however do not act upon it. You will never look at her again or look at yourself the same. Because all those whom you think of are well endowed than you are, now imagine after acting upon this and oneda you find her talking to another man, whom maybe endowed. It is a Normal fantasy, am sure she fantasizes about you as well with another man, but allow her to let you know. As for this fantasy, try and talk to her about it, hear what she has to say. if your relationship is sexually motivated and solidly based, there is nothing wrong to pursue this fantasy. But if you love her as a person and not a sexual partner only. Just fantasize.... Mind is the most heathy sexual organ... Good luck as I tried. Maybe deep down in your heart you see your girlfriend as a gold digger. Are you trying to accomodate her needs and are living above your means. Let me guess she probably doesn't even work and you work possibly three jobs trying to keep up with her. Hopefully this is not the case. But if it is anywhere near this I suggest you run for you life and get you someone that loves you for you and not what you can give them. Seems like you are afraid you are not going to be able to keep up with supplying her wants. And if she is always impressed by men who can give her more I would hope you would take this as warning signs and red flags to reevaluate your relationship and financial abilities. I agree with the first poster. Men and women have very secret fantasies and just because they don't express it openly or always act on it doesn't mean they aren't thinking about it. It's normal as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else including your partner.

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