What kind of questions should you ask on a first date?

Answer 1

On a first date I think you should start off with small conversation like "How are you?". When meeting for the first time, ask questions to start conversation like if they bring up something that has happened to them when asked, "How are you?" then people usely can ask one question about the subject and tell a relating story,telling a relating story shows you have things in common and you know where they are coming from. Its not really about the questions its about the conversation. Questions are just used to start conversation ask a few simple questions when starting off then go into what you and your partner are talking about. And throwing in a few compliments here and there are good to keep the conversation alive and are great considering its a date and you like the person your with. When first seeing the person saying they look nice is a very common greeting, or maybe you like the way they smell or their eye color. But mainly questions are just to start off you can ask a few especially if you dont really know the person, getting to know them more like asking them what they like or questions about their personality and interest. This can show that you are interested in the person. Also dont be affraid when asked a question, answer it and dont be nervous, if your nervous your partner can get a different impression. Like your lieing or hiding something or even you dont want to be with him/her.

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While I agree with the answerer above, I personally like to add my small wisdom. My best advice is to go with the flow. Never memorize a set of questions and go straight to it as if you're interviewing someone for a job. Go with what sets the mood. For instance, if she just got out of work, ask her how the day went. What job does she do and of course, how does she FEEL about it. Omit sex, past relationships or any personal questions for the first date. The first date should be a time where you should express your confidence, personality and characteristics without overflowing with exaggerations. Keep in mind to branch off questions instead of asking random questions out of nowhere (although randomness can be a turn-on, use it wisely). In other words, if you're talking about sports, go to one sport and talk in detail about it. If she doesn't like that sport, go to another one or if she doesn't like sports at all, ask her what she likes, etc. When you focus too much on your questions, you may lose track of talking and sharing what your partner has to say. My guess is, if you get to ask most or all your questions during the first date, youv'e probably already suffocated her to the point of no return. When dating women, just listen and nod. (keep up the eye contact). There are two types: the talking ones (just let her talk and listen). Your job is simply agreeing and not judging. the silent one (not necessarily always silent but definitely shy). If in doubt, ask basic questions regarding her lifestyle.

Answer 2

anything really...

just dont bring up things like, how much money he makes, dont try to talk about religion it may lead into arguements.

just see what they like to do, hobbies, just be yourself and make sure the guy feels comfortable too. dont be pushy or needy.

good luck :)