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Honey, I know where you are and let me tell you it is a bad place to be! First please start your own savings and/or checking account he knows nothing about before he takes it all and you are broke! Close out any joint accounts and get the heck out of there.For God's sake, protect your children if you have any. Don't wait until you can't get away comfortably. Just take what you can and go! It sounds like he has his own plans and they don't include you!

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Q: What should you do if you've been married 16 yrs and your husband gives the silent treatment for 9 months and states he wants a divorce but has not filed but excludes you and does his own thing?
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