What should you do if you are 13 years old and broke up with your boyfriend last year but you miss him and want to be friends and you are afraid to call him because it might be weird?

Call him, use the holidays as an excuse to ''catch up with old friends''. Then, see where the conversation takes you. You should wait until you are old enough and, more importantly, mature enough to have boyfriends. That's not to say you shouldn't have boy friends -- that is, friends who are boys. But it's just plain bad news for girls (or boys) your age to get involved in boyfriend-girlfriend relationships. It causes nothing but heartache and tears, not to mention really crappy grades.