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First, you need to gauge whether it is really love, or is it lust/infatuation. What happenened to the 'love' between you and your boyfriend? Was it there in the first place, even? If you can 'love' another person while you're attached, clearly you don't love your boyfriend at all, or anymore. You should then be honest, and initiate a breakup. Then look to pursue a relationship with the best friend. BUT you must make sure the other party is willing too.

There is no point staying with someone whom you do not love.

AnswerDo your boyfriend a favor and break up with him if your eyes are wandering. It is doubtful that your boyfriends friend would date you, he probably has a "hands off" policy for ex girlfriends. If the friendship between the guys is strong, you are out of luck. Either way, you are in a lose-lose situation. You should focus on your man and stay away from his friend or leave this poor guy alone so he can get a woman who will love him and not his best friend.

this depends on if you love your boyfriend more than anything you can get through it.if you have been with someone for a long time, the novelty of that relationship will wear off and you could easily turn your attention to his friend as you see him on a regular basis.i am speaking from experience i am still with my boyfriend of a year and a half and i care about him enough to stay with him.

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Q: What should you do if you are in love with your boyfriend's best friend?
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