First, you need to gauge whether it is really love, or is it lust/infatuation. What happenened to the 'love' between you and your boyfriend? Was it there in the first place, even? If you can 'love' another person while you're attached, clearly you don't love your boyfriend at all, or anymore. You should then be honest, and initiate a breakup. Then look to pursue a relationship with the best friend. BUT you must make sure the other party is willing too.
There is no point staying with someone whom you do not love.AnswerDo your boyfriend a favor and break up with him if your eyes are wandering. It is doubtful that your boyfriends friend would date you, he probably has a "hands off" policy for ex girlfriends. If the friendship between the guys is strong, you are out of luck. Either way, you are in a lose-lose situation. You should focus on your man and stay away from his friend or leave this poor guy alone so he can get a woman who will love him and not his best friend.
this depends on if you love your boyfriend more than anything you can get through it.if you have been with someone for a long time, the novelty of that relationship will wear off and you could easily turn your attention to his friend as you see him on a regular basis.i am speaking from experience i am still with my boyfriend of a year and a half and i care about him enough to stay with him.
When you feel that the time is right, you should tell him that you love him.
Then you choose the one that you truly love. If ou love the best friend then tell the boyfriend. Don't cheat. If you still like the boyfriend then tell the best friend in a nice way that you are not interested.
well first you should think about it before you do anything OK but if you are truly in love ask him or her out because you don't wont to lose a chance at love OK hope i helped you
Well it depends. Is your boyfriend's best friend recently been dumped? Cause then he could be confused. Or maybe, you make your boyfriend really happy and his best friend wanted to be happy too. You should tell your boyfriend if you really love him.
boyfriends/girlfriends come and go friends are always friends
First, do you love your boyfriend and is it worthy of loosing him to his friend.......
Tell you I hope it works out and to watch out for my ex....there is a reason why they are ex's.
You should know if your in love with your best friend. I was, and I asked her out and she loved me too! :D if you have to ask how do you know your not in love with him/her
What ever you do don't cheat on you boyfriend and it's OK, if you don't love your boyfriend, to tell him that you don't like him. But if you show them love both the same way or your boyfriends best friend more one of them or both is most likely going to be hurt. And in the end you can only choose one.
you should just ask him out.
Your crazy...and he's your BEST friend! Hell no.
You should respect their relationship.
You should probably cheat on your boyfriend to see if it feels right with your boyfriends best friend. And even if your boyfriend catches you, you could just blame the best friend and say he tried to rape you or something. ^^^ I have the same problem. I have been dating my boyfriend for 7 months and I have recently found out that I have feelings for his best friend. The friend likes me too and we have even tried to kiss to see how it feels. But then....crap hit the fan....the friend told my boyfriend and everything went to hell. So, in my opinion I don't think you should cheat on your boyfriend. Maybe you could take a break and try things out with the friend, but I would not cheat on him. That would make him lose trust in you and what if the fling with the best friend doesn't work out? I know, this sucks.
they are pricks but we love them.
In reality why should you care if your boyfriends ex best friend has a crush on you. You seemed flattered and that's fine, but, don't be made a fool of. It is highly possible that your boyfriend's ex best friend is trying to get even with him for ending the friendship by flirting with you and hopefully try luring you away from your boyfriend. If you love your boyfriend then concentrate on him and never mind wondering about whether this ex friend of his is attracted to you. Be smart! Don't be a pawn in a game with someone who wants to get even with your boyfriend.
Of course but be careful. Don't lose a best friend because you love them
You should tell her, they should be ok with it because they are not in love with their cousin and plus if she is really your best friend it will be cool with her.
It will ruin our friend like relationship
I told my guy friend that he was hot:-) he said oh.
well what i think you should do is comforty your friend with her new boyfriend and if he dumps her she will need a shoulder to cry on and you are IT! comfort her and then take things father by liltle paces . work it out and Good Luck!
Yes if they are in love!
Tell him. Communication and sencerity always work.
then she should leave her boyfriend and do something about the love she has for her best friend..
Well, it depends on if you like your girlfriend, if your best friend is a girl, then trust me she should like you back.