What should you do if you go to the movies with a girl that you like?

Going to the movies on a date is one of the easiest ways to get over the first date gitters, because both of you should be watching the movie. Here are some tips: Knock on her door when picking her up and if she has parents be sure you are on your best behavior if you should get to meet them. Be you! Don't try to be cool or someone different. If you are driving to the movies, put on some music in the car that you both enjoy and that helps break the ice. You can talk about music groups, movies, etc. Once at the movies and you have paid to get in ask her what she would like to eat or drink. Then ask her to pick where she wants to sit in the movie theater. For the first date I'd just watch the movie and if she makes the odd comment about something in the movie answer her. Women that aren't that shy will take your hand or lean on you, and that's a signal you can put your arm around her shoulders, but it's easier just to have fun on that first date. When the movie is over you could ask her if she wants to go for something to eat at a cafe (where the kids hang out) or if you are a little older and can drink, go for a beer or whatever. When you get her to the door you could hold her hand, but if she puts her face upwards to you she is expecting that kiss so plant one on her. This is not the time to practice "French kissing" so don't bother. That's an extremely intimate kiss and should be saved for later if both parties enjoy it. Ask if she would like to go out the following weekend. I recomment two great movies that deals with first love and how to deal with your feelings: "Summer of 42" and "Notebook." Both are great movies and very realistic and it will help to make you realize everyone is nervous on the first date no matter how confident they think they are. Good luck Be yourself! Marcy