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question did you cheat with someone else because your question isn't clear you said you had a one night stand with your girlfriend who later became your wife. Well if you did cheat why didn't you say something before you went and got married and stayed with her for four more years you know she's going to be upset so you need to decide would it benefit you to tell her this or should you keep it to yourself and take it to the grave if you love her and you feel like it's something that's not going to happen again then don't say anything but i can understand why you feel guilty and everything you probably don't want to keep secrets from her but you should have not done it. I'm trying to give you some good advice but you screwed up and now can't nobody help you you guys should think before ya'll do something so stupid then you wouldn't have to figure out what to do!!! Dang! I'm mad for her cause you didn't have to do her like that if you married her especially you should have said something to her so she could make up her mind about what she wanted to do before. Ya'll so selfish!! Good Luck figuring it out on your own!!

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Q: What should you do if you had a one night stand during year 4 of your 8-year relationship with your girlfriend who later became your wife?
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