What should you do if you just received divorce papers and you don't want to divorce?
It is not up to you. The "other person" can begin a divorce action without your "approval". Get a lawyer to explain your rights in your state, otherwise you may be very sorry when the case gets to a courtroom.
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You need to get a lawyer and contest the divorce.
You are wanting to divorce your husband but you dont know were he is you have been separated for 4 years now can you help?
Does your state require that you have "reason" to get divorced? Most states are now "no fault" so it doesn't matter why you want a divorce, you can just get one. If you do not want to sign the divorce papers as they stand, make your spouse change the offensive parts with the understanding that you will sign the new papers without a problem. Find out if you are a no fault state. Then you'll…