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What should you do if you live in India and met a girl online from the US and she wants you to move to the US but you want her to come to India?

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2009-11-20 17:51:24

Meeting online is not a signature to base your future on

something so serious as you moving to the U.S. (not that simple) or

her moving to India (not simple either.) There is a big cultural

difference going on. If you are from the Indian culture then you

know very well how strict your families cultural beliefs are and

that if you two should meet and fall in love there will be many

problems facing you. Westernized women do not take kindly to

sitting in the background or being told what to do so that's a

problem right there. I will warn you that if for any reason (not

accusing you) you are using this girl to enter into the U.S. the

U.S. Immigration is very tough right now. There would be lots of

red tape. I live in British Columbia, Canada where a lot of Indian

cultures live (Hindu, Paki, etc.) Some of them are my friends and

no matter how Westernized they become here I hear the young women

complaining how their families are putting a great deal of pressure

on them to keep the ancient ways of their elders. Some of these

young women have run away from their families and lived in another

town because the stress was so great and the ancient ways were

being forced upon them by their parents when it came to who they

saw and who they married. It doesn't matter if you are in your

teens or 40s you know this problem will arise unless you are

unfortunate enough to not have family. Give it a little more time

before you make such a big decision. You know nothing about each

other because you have only met over the Internet. If you need to

meet then meet on neutral ground (somewhere inbetween.)


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