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What should you do if your boyfriend and you broke up a year and a half ago and now he wants you back but you had a very bad break up and you assume that he cheated too?

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2005-10-08 03:12:00
2005-10-08 03:12:00

Run! Find someone who is more stable, intelligent, kind and who treats you well. Look for maturity instead of just someone who claims to love you. If he truly loves and respects you he would never even THINK of cheating on you and certainly wouldn't want to ever break up with you for any reason. If he's running back now it's just because he's lonley and thinks you're easy to get back with. You certainly have to value yourself before you can even THINK of having someone else think you're worth serious commitment.

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