What should you do if your boyfriend cheated on you and now that you've left him he keeps calling you and won't leave you alone and you still love him?
If he has cheated on you more than once that you know of then keep walking! If this is the first time he's cheated, people make mistakes and give him a chance, but don't make it easy for him to slide back into your life or he won't respect you. Believe it or not you are in total control of this situation. Make him work his butt off by gaining your trust back. Never make it easy, but also learn when enough is enough so you don't discourage him. Meet with him and say, "You have broken a bond of trust between us, but I realize people can make a mistake. I don't trust you 100% so you're going to have to earn it. Meanwhile, I'm going to just go on with my life and if you want to date you phone me like anyone else!" It makes men crazy when you say this because they never quite understand where a woman's mind is coming from. It's simple really ... it means that you are willing to date him, but you don't trust him 100% and you aren't going to commit to him fully until he proves himself to you. This also means that you are free to date whomever you wish to date. Nice position to be in girl! Give it all you've got! Good luck Marcy == Just keep a safe disatance and be "just friends" with him. Date other men. Hang out with other people. This actually happened to me years ago. Caught my fiance screwing around on me big time. Wrote him a tactful letter not so nice that basically said as far as jerks go he takes the cake. I let him go and got involved with someone else who just happened to be his best friend. It hurt him big time but i wasnt about to go back because i found someone better. And like an idiot i let the better guy slip away several years later.
The current boyfriend has cheated in all his other relationships should i leave him alone before i get hurt?
It is too bad you chose to cheat on your boyfriend and that is when you should have broken up the relationship. People make misakes and now that you want to break up you should choose a quiet moment alone with your boyfriend and tell him that you no longer feel the same about him, but don't add salt to his wound by telling him you cheated on him. Don't say those weary words, 'it's…
What should you do if you tell a boyfriend to stop calling and leave you alone for awhile and he refuses?
If you've firmly asked him to leave you alone and he refuses, you can visit your local police department to have a restraining order issued. Depending on the scenario, this will prevent him from calling you or coming within "X-many" feet of you. That generally does the trick. His failure to comply with this order could result in his immediate arrest.
She has a boyfriend so leave well enough alone. You obviously blew it so now you are going to have to pay the consequences for your own actions and it's time you learned something from this experience. When or if she should break up with this boyfriend is your time to move in, but be sure you have matured more before calling her up. This is all a lie.
Give it time. If they prove themselves after time, then you should trust them. Everyone deserves a second chance. ANSWER: It will take time for you to give back the trust that your boyfriend took away from you. The feeling of betrayal will linger for a while but you can do something about this, by making yourself busy. Go out with your close friends like the way you use to before. Try not to be…
Honesty is always the best policy. When you are alone and you know you have proof he was cheating and not secondhand gossip, tell him you know he's cheated and then it's up to you whether you want to continue on with the relationship. Think very hard about staying with your boyfriend because he may just cheat again and even if he doesn't he has broken that bond of trust you had for him.
ANSWER What you should definitely keep with your boyfriend are the personal things you guys do together alone. However, if you really trust your friends there shouldn't be a problem talking to them about your relationship with your boyfriend. Make sure your boyfriend is cool with it or you'll have problems. Good luck with your relationship
What should you do when you love someone but you know you shouldn't because he is your friend's boyfriend?
Leave him alone. He doesn't have to be (& he shouldn't be!) with you. He doesn't owe you anything. If you can actually be faithful, get another boyfriend & try it again. Cheating, if you want to cheat then face the consequences. Just stay single if you want to flirt like crazy; don't hurt someone because of your recklessness.
What should ido when you want your exboyfriend back and he cheated on you and you broke up with him and now he want talk to you?
If this is a very good friend, you could have a talk with her about this. Tell her how you feel about this boyfriend and that you would prefer to not go out with them as a "group date" thing. This is your friend....you need to leave her boyfriend alone, so don't even put yourself into a situation where the two of you will be alone together. Now, if her boyfriend hits on you, you…
You don't. What kind of sister & friend are you as to where you'd want to make someone think that? If YOU don't like her boyfriend, that's none of your business. She's not dating YOU, she's dating HIM. If you're that cruel & can't leave her relationship alone, sit her down & calmly explain why you don't want her with her boyfriend. Remember that her relationship is not your business or decision though.
How can you get your boyfriend to trust you again if you cheated on him with your ex eight months ago and he still doesn't trust you?
I would suggest you really stop and think...Why do you want to stay? If your boyfriend was truly for you, and you were in love, you would never have cheated or lied. Please stop wasting your time and his time. I don't mean to be harsh, but grow up girl, and be a woman. Leave him alone and move on. You will find your true love in time. By staying and begging for trust, you…
What should I do when my ex boyfriend and I have a baby together but broke up and he won't leave my new boyfriend and I alone?
* Whatever differences you have together you are both the parents of your baby. You should meet your ex boyfriend in a public place and communicate to him that he has a right to see his child, but you do not love him and you are happy with your new boyfriend. It will pain him, but he'll have to accept it and if he does not listen to you and makes any threatening remarks to…