What should you do if your ex-girlfriend wants to be friends but you loved her so much and told her you're afraid you can't bear to see her with someone else because you're still hoping to reunite?
I am sorry you are hurting so much, and even the next few words I will say will not make you feel any better right now, but in time, you will either get back together or you'll move on. Most people have been hurt by someone they loved during their youth. It hurts like hell! It feels like you're never going to get over it, but we all do. That old "friendship" bit sure comes up a lot and it's never changed from generation to generation. I agree with you ... it would hurt too much to be just friends. I suggest when you are feeling up to it, agree with her on remaining friends, BUT ... pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start going out with other girls. You just never know if there is that right girl out there for you and, there is also a possibility that if you stop hanging around your ex girlfriend and are just pleasant with her, but appear busy then she may realize she does love you after all. Human nature is a strange thing indeed .... most of us want what we can't have. Good luck Marcy
If you were younger by someone in your family or someone you know you might feel a little bit left out because you don't really have any older kids to play with and they won't help you out because they have different friends. If you ever feel alone you can go to someone near you so you can ask them if you can play with them. Being friends is all what it's about.
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There are many benefits from becoming a good friend. Here are some of them: You will have someone to talk to. If you become best friends, you may have someone to tell your secrets to. If you're upset, they may be the only person who can support you because they know how to calm you down. You will have a laugh with them! People won't call you 'loner' or 'retard' because you have no friends…
If it is someone that you are friends with, try just asking them nicely. If that doesn't work, try teasing back. If that doesn't work either, or if it is someone with whom you are not friends, ignore it and they will stop because they won't find it fun anymore. If it is becoming cruel and abusive, tell someone (a teacher, for example).
Friends do not disappear when they start dating someone because they no longer care about their friends. In the early days of relationships, new couples often spend most of their free time together in order to get to know one another better. In time, the balance of time between friends and dating partners usually comes back to normal.