Advice from a man, It's because he views you as being weak and hopelessly in love with him, no matter how he treats you. It's not that he doesn't love you, he has just lost interest in you. Men like a challenge, its our nature. If you make your love easy to come by, then it won't be very precious to him. My advice to you is if you want to improve the situation, prove your independance and force him to persue you. Show him that your happiness doesn't depend on him being around and he will stay. Resist the earge to gratify is every need and make him earn what he wants by treating you the way you dream about being treated. This is the start of making yourself challenging, but, by all means, be creative. Also, he sounds a little conceited, like he thinks that he is way too good looking to be with you, so, a gentle reality check about where he would stand in the outside world might be in order. Just to get things into perspective, but, be gentle as not to bruise his precious ego. Remember, you are the mother of his son, the most precious gift you could ever give. You deserve his utermost respect and love, but, a son needs his father, so, try to make it work. Don't become a statistic, for your sons sake. Advice from a woman, This is almost the exact thing my husband said to me when, brace yourself, I found out he was involved in an "emotional affair". Don't buy into the "blame game" he is playing and the excuse he is giving you for his unhappiness. If it was over a long time ago, then it was his responsibility to let you know a long time ago. But blaming is not the answer. Probably, both of you are somewhat to blame for the current state of the relationship. What is needed is individual counseling - moreso than joint marriage counseling. You both need to take responsibility for your own happiness. You can't MAKE somebody else happy. I know from my own painful experience that crying, begging, trying to change for him, exquisite sex, trying to reason with him, researching ways to "fix" the marriage, etc. all do not work. Oddly, they push him further away. I agree with Advice from a man above, in that the only thing that works is getting to the point that you feel good enough about yourself to say, "I love you and want to try to improve our marriage, but that takes TWO. If you aren't interested, that's ok. I know I am a good person with a fantastic son, and I know that I will find the love and the relationship that I deserve. So if you aren't willing to put 100% of your effort, as I am, into working on US, please let me know now, so I can move on with my life and in finding my own happiness." It does work, but the catch is, you have to mean it. I hope in your case your husband is not having an affair, but you need to force out the truth of the root cause of his unhappiness. Like Dr. Phil says, "You can't fix what you don't acknowledge". Bring everything out into the light and talk about it openly and honestly. Things seem much worse when they remain unspoken. And don't point fingers of blame. That just causes defensiveness and solves nothing. Instead ask yourself, "How did I contribute to this situation? - What could I have done differently? - What will I do differently next time?" In other words, don't put your energy into complaining about the problem - put it into coming to agreement about solutions. You can't change somebody else, and you can't make somebody else happy, no matter how hard you try. You can only change yourself and make yourself happy. It sounds selfish, but it's the only way. Talk only about YOUR thoughts and feelings. Everything should be "I, I, I" - NOT "he, he, he". And by doing this, the relationship WILL change. It must, because you are half of the relationship. You both owe it to yourselves, and to your son, to put 100% into trying your best. Divorce is traumatic for everyone, including your son. But after all is said and done, if you can honestly say you would be better off/happier without him (meaning ALONE), then perhaps that's the right road. Yes, divorce can cause your child to have "issues" - but so can watching your parents fight and/or exist within a loveless marriage. Your son is learning about relationships, marriage, self-esteem, self-worth, and personal integrity from both of YOU. I wish you the best of luck. LG in CA
Just be yourself, it worked for me. good luck
Talk to him and find out why he is wearing them.
she should just say no that she doesnt like him
He totally likes you, but he doesnt know what to do, like.. he doesnt know if you like him, he doesnt know if he should tell his girlfriend he likes someone else.. I can go on and on.. If you like him, tell him, he totally likes you.
if he trusts you, tell him what you think about the girl he likes. if he doesnt stop liking her then, try asking him WHY he likes her. it might get him thinking...
The girl should ask one of his friends if he likes her and if its a no then she needs to try be his best friend so that she could inpress him but she doesnt need to be nerves about it! she should asks one of his friends and get the real truth...because youu never know it might be a rumor
only if she doesnt like your friend
You can. If he likes you he likes you. If he doesnt then he doesnt. Sorry that's all i got
Just stay friends with him.
you should probably just ask around and see what he likes about you
Meby you should try starting a convo with him
You should try talking to him about something that interests you both.
i would say flirt and see how she reacts to it if she doesnt seem to like it then she probley doesnt like you but if she likes it then she probley likes you
Ask him.? Ask him why he says he likes you but doesnt act like it. Either he will answer the question or he doesnt like you..
It depends if the other girl likes him too if he likes you and the other girl and the other girl likes him back then you should let him decide who he likes best and maybe it will be you, and if not he most likely will ask you out next. if the other girl doesnt like him back just make sure he knows u like him, and that he doesnt think the other girl likes him. Hope this helps!!!
you should wait until She tells you & if she doesnt tell you SHe doesnt like you=) thats bad advice you should use body language to find out look her in the eyes if she smiles at you instantly or quickly turns her head away she probably likes you
That is a hard Q, i think if he likes u he will porbably be ok with it, but if he doesnt make sure he doesnt laugh at u
Well, you will know if a boy likes you if he is constantly looking at you, if your popular, and if he just smalls or waves. Maybe you should try talking to him.
it doesnt mean he likes you.
just play it cool and if that doesnt work then just try to talk to them and make friends
become his friend or move on and find somebody better
Then Dasia needs to ask Montel straight up if he likes her instead of just guessing.
well she should tell the other guy that she doesnt likethat she is not interested in him and that she already likes someone else then say sorry to him
sit down and talk about it