What should you do when you're married and have a child but realize you still love your ex-boyfriend?

You didn't mention if the child was your ex boyfriends or your husbands. Sometimes when things don't go well in our marriages it's easy to wish for a simpler life and you may think that you would be happier with your ex than with your husband. Really think about this. It's better to ask your husband if you could go and visit relatives or even go for a 3 day weekend with a girlfriend so you could get some head space to really think things out. I've learned through my many years that the grass isn't always greener on the other side. You now have a child and if that child is your husbands then you really need to think about what your future actions will be. As you can see from this board many people have made bad mistakes that they can't rectify. When you hurt someone that loves you sometimes that person can't trust you again and is not willing to take you back. No one said marriage was easy so hopefully you will think this out and whatever problems you have in this marriage you will try and work out with your husband.
You didn't mention if the child was your ex boyfriends or your husbands. Sometimes when things don't go well in our marriages it's easy to wish for a simpler life and you may think that you would be happier with your ex than with your husband. Really think about this. It's better to ask your husband if you could go and visit relatives or even go for a 3 day weekend with a girlfriend so you could get some head space to really think things out. I've learned through my many years that the grass isn't always greener on the other side. You now have a child and if that child is your husbands then you really need to think about what your future actions will be. As you can see from this board many people have made bad mistakes that they can't rectify. When you hurt someone that loves you sometimes that person can't trust you again and is not willing to take you back. No one said marriage was easy so hopefully you will think this out and whatever problems you have in this marriage you will try and work out with your husband.