What should you do when you are are madly in love with a guy and he says he loves you too but has a girlfriend?

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September 13, 2011 1:08PM

If he really loves you, he would finish with his girlfriend and

be with you. Dont think that you could have an affair with him, it

wouldn't be fair on his girlfriend. Ask him, if he really loves

you, to prove it by splitting with her. Are you sure he wasnt just

sparing your feelings? Is he someone you've known a long time? If

you have, why didnt he admit this sooner? If you havent known him

long, try to get to know him properly. He might be someone who

gives their love too freely, and could end up just being a player.

If in the meantime he splits with her, then go for it, but just

tread carefully. its not just him and you in this equation, its her

as well. A woman scorned usually comes after the other woman to get

her vengance. If you can cope with that, fine, but Im only warning

you because Ive been there.

Good Luck, Emma.

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Just remains friends with him. Let him finish that relationship

before starting another with you.

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I say run for your life. This guy is a cheater. As soon as he told

you he loved you he was cheating on his girlfriend. And if it were

true, he surely would have left the GF by now. I think the most

likely scenario is that he is just saying that he loves you in

order to get leverage with you. Let me guess. You said that you

love him first, right?? I think that what is probably best for you

is to stay away from him and let your feelings subside. If he loved

you he would be with you already.

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You move on and find someone who actually DOES love you and doesn't

want to string you along and play games. Even his girlfriend should

dump him.

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Then he needs to choose to either

a: stick with his girlfriend or... b: break up with her.

There's really no other alternatives. He should choose who he

loves the most. Simple as that.

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Just maybe he's being nice to the GF and being sincere to the other

woman. Maybe there is a reason he can't leave, such as severe

depression of the GF. I don't think he's stringing you along and I

think you might be able to work it out. The only leverage I see is

that the GF will stick with this guy no matter how he treats her,

she's a doormat. Let me guess he makes a good income. It doesn't

matter who say I love you first, you just both have to mean it!

Good luck and be careful. Don't let this woman know where you live.

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I know exactly what you mean. I have the same problem, but it isn't

because he is with another girl. It's for other reasons, but the

only advice I can give you is to wait. That's all I can do and

trust me it will drive you crazy, but just relax and be patient.

Remember: Good things come to those who wait. At least that's what

I have always heard:) Things may not work out with his girlfriend,

and if he really loves you then he'll leave her and be there for

you. Like I said though be patient! Hang in there!

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Oh boy, could you really trust him if you did get together? What a


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tell him to chose the one he loves the most

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