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What should you do when you feel left out from your friends?


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2011-09-13 13:08:20
2011-09-13 13:08:20

These are not your true friends. If you are young, you will probably not even know these people as you go to college or marry and raise a family. What other interests do you have? Find friends that want you to be around and that you share the same interests. You are waisting your time with these "friends" now.

There can actually be points when the friends feel as if you have changed or you have done something to upset them, at this stage they may not mean to make you feel left out. at points even the best of friends can find each other annoying, because nobody is perfect. sometimes its a matter of being patient and actually talking to your friends about why they feel the need to make you feel left out. this is easy said hard done but it may save you from allot of hurt and frustration. If even then you feel that your friends or friend is treating you unfairly then don't feel the need to put up with them, because a true friend wouldn't do anything to hurt you. In fact a true Friend wouldn't watch anyone else do anything to hurt you they would stick up for you even if you aren't there and someone is making comments about you.

But also remember that maybe it's just that they don't know you feel this way. Maybe they want to include you but they don't think you are interested. Don't dump your friends right away. Try talking to them first. Be reasonable and rational. Everything will be okay in the end. Hakuna Mattata. it means no worries.

I agree with ^ Above.

Dont be friends with then ASAP especially if you cant stand being left out. They are probably doing this on purpose because they cant ever forget about a friend unless they're not a true one. I have a friend who grew up with me in the elementary school and middle school as me. She stopped being my best friend when she met a girl who ended up in the same class as me who I met 3 years ago. Instead, she decided to leave me alone and become her best friend. That time I wanted to throw her in the toilet! (My "Best friend") Well she isn't anymore and Im glad Im not the best friend of a backstabber anymore. But later on, when we made more friends, I wasnt feeling that left out anymore. They created a Best friends group and I was happy to be part of it. But then they had a fight with each other and made it new group. I hadnt done anything yet, they didnt invite me to the group. I am feeling the same pain right now as I did starting Middle school. Pick out your real friends. Friends that will never leave you alone, friends that are never jealous and hurt other people. There are plenty of other people out there, so don't stick with the same STUPID friends that leave you alone because they don't know it about themselves but they are truly SELFISH, their attitude is getting UGLY and no one likes it. Tell them you don't care anymore and you cant stand being left out. And to make yourself feel better you can just walk off and laugh it off. =] Good Luck. { Ps. Many people are being in the same situation :) Including me. Just laugh it off and remember your other friends }


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Friends (should) make us feel really good.

No it is not selfish at all! It is perfectly normal to feel a bit left out if your friends are talking about stuff that doesn't involve you. To get involved more try telling your friends that you are feeling a bit left out or try changing the topic to something that you feel comfortable talking about. Don't worry it is fine to feel a but left out and it is definitely not selfish!

because i feel left out and i dont know what to do

That truly depends on what they have left together after divorce. If primarily their relationship was based on friendship they should stay friends. The fact that a piece of their universe (even if an important one) didn't work out doesn't mean they can't still be friends if they feel confortable with the idea.

Yes you should feel guilty about it. This is not a loyal thing to do.

Well if you go out all the time with your girl friends then yes. But if it's just once in a while then no, but either way if they're all girls your going out with then you should invite your girlfriend so she won't feel left out or think you're cheating on her.

You should tell him how you feel and you should still be friends. It may work again but if not just stay friends and move on.

They tend to get very fond of you and if you feel the same you should date They tend to get very fond of you and if you feel the same you should date

Because it turns out, that's probably not your right friendship group. If you feel you don't belong, then you most likely don't. You'll meet better friends, who love you like the best friend they've ever had. That's what a friendship group should feel like.

Right now, you have people that you know, but you do NOT have friends. True friends try to make you feel good and loved. My advice is to just be yourself, and you will eventually find people that are like you to become friends with. True friends.

NO WAY! Just because your friends do doesn't mean you have to! Who cares about having a boyfriend anyway? It's not always more fun and it only works out when you're ready.

If you feel strongly about it - you should invite them over today! Why put it off?

I would feel HORRIBLE!! To leave my friends just to go to a different school! and if i was left out that's even worse.

If you feel lonely you should take this time to spend with friends and family!

I have never had this happen to me but if this truly is happening then you need to stop it sooner rather than later. Make sure you let your friends know how you feel like if you feel left out at all or if you are feeling depressed at their actions. If this does not work and they still continue to turn on you then maybe it's time to find new friends because friends don't turn on friends. However, in contrast to this if they are your real friends then they should come around as soon as you tell them how you feel and they will understand eventually. Just have patience and don't rush it but don't wait to take action either! Express yourself now more than ever.

Well you do what you do everyday and act normal.. or maybe ask your friends if they can hook you up with someone nice.

you can bring up something you might know about the topic. for example, video games. bring up your favorite video game, and start a conversation.

You just haven't met the right guy yet that has found out how amazing you are.. You will one day(: And you shouldn't feel left out quite yet cause you'll have one too soon.. I'm sure of it. And even if you don't, then you should still just be happy.. You're single and will find someone who's lucky enough to have you(: `Mari♥

You should feel brave that you are brave enough to tell the one you like how you feel and him he's not the one

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