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These are not your true friends. If you are young, you will probably not even know these people as you go to college or marry and raise a family. What other interests do you have? Find friends that want you to be around and that you share the same interests. You are waisting your time with these "friends" now.

There can actually be points when the friends feel as if you have changed or you have done something to upset them, at this stage they may not mean to make you feel left out. at points even the best of friends can find each other annoying, because nobody is perfect. sometimes its a matter of being patient and actually talking to your friends about why they feel the need to make you feel left out. this is easy said hard done but it may save you from allot of hurt and frustration. If even then you feel that your friends or friend is treating you unfairly then don't feel the need to put up with them, because a true friend wouldn't do anything to hurt you. In fact a true Friend wouldn't watch anyone else do anything to hurt you they would stick up for you even if you aren't there and someone is making comments about you.

But also remember that maybe it's just that they don't know you feel this way. Maybe they want to include you but they don't think you are interested. Don't dump your friends right away. Try talking to them first. Be reasonable and rational. Everything will be okay in the end. Hakuna Mattata. it means no worries.

I agree with ^ Above.

Dont be friends with then ASAP especially if you cant stand being left out. They are probably doing this on purpose because they cant ever forget about a friend unless they're not a true one. I have a friend who grew up with me in the elementary school and middle school as me. She stopped being my best friend when she met a girl who ended up in the same class as me who I met 3 years ago. Instead, she decided to leave me alone and become her best friend. That time I wanted to throw her in the toilet! (My "Best friend") Well she isn't anymore and Im glad Im not the best friend of a backstabber anymore. But later on, when we made more friends, I wasnt feeling that left out anymore. They created a Best friends group and I was happy to be part of it. But then they had a fight with each other and made it new group. I hadnt done anything yet, they didnt invite me to the group. I am feeling the same pain right now as I did starting Middle school. Pick out your real friends. Friends that will never leave you alone, friends that are never jealous and hurt other people. There are plenty of other people out there, so don't stick with the same STUPID friends that leave you alone because they don't know it about themselves but they are truly SELFISH, their attitude is getting UGLY and no one likes it. Tell them you don't care anymore and you cant stand being left out. And to make yourself feel better you can just walk off and laugh it off. =] Good Luck. { Ps. Many people are being in the same situation :) Including me. Just laugh it off and remember your other friends }

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