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What to do if a victim of abuse does not want to admit that they are being abused?


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2010-07-27 07:42:57
2010-07-27 07:42:57

Victims of abuse always are recluse.

Because they feel they won't be understood or feel they will be blamed.

If you know the person is abused, u don't need her/him to admit, but you need to communicate with her/him in the most caring way, no criticizing, no sides taking, remember he/she feels blamed for it.

And when you can talk about it openly, then you can convince her/him to seek help from concern authorities.

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