What can i do if i am in love with a girl and she doesn't love me back and she only want to be friends?

Answer 1

Unfortunately, we don't always get to chose who loves us and who doesn't. Start with her friendship. Be kind, generous and good to her. In time, her feeling may deepen into love. If they don't you could end up with a very good friend. Remember, you can only control what you feel and do. The rest is up to her.

Answerlisten i am pretty much in the same situation as you and have been for 2 years but i have finally learned how to resolve this problem.even though this is really not want you want to hear you have to start seeing other girls and do NOT compare them to this girl because then it will all go downhill!you would be amazed how much of a good time you can have without this girl even when you think you cant.she may seem very special to you and make you feel like you will never find someone like her but once you spend a little less time with her and more with new people you will look back at how you feel now and laugh.once you do spend less time with this girl and don't see as much of her she will not be used to not seeing as much as you and will miss you.she will notice what a impact you have on her life and then when she sees you with other girls she will be drawn to you and will probably become very attracted to you and the best part is that you barley did any work!as soon as you stop trieng so hard everything works out and you've met loads of new people.you CAN live without her love so stop worrieng and get on with your life i promise you things will work out GOOD LUCK!shak

Answer 2

This situation sounds like my situation. My best friend is a boy and he has been in love with me for the 2 years that we have known each other. She may like you more than a friend but just doesn't want to come out and say it. You should tell her how you feel and if she still sees you as a friend, like how I see my friend, you wont be able to win her over. If you've known her for a while and she still hasn't fell in love with your personality it isn't going to happen. Continue to be yourself because that's all she's going to get in the end. If it doesn't happen then move on. You can continue to be her friend or not. It's your choice.

Answer 3

Don't get stuck in the mistaken belief that 'being friends' or 'wanting to hang out'= having a chance to date her in the future. She was clear about what she wants (friends, not dating) so you are accepting this arrangement if you chose to hang out with her.

For your own sake, give yourself some distance from her, at the least until you no longer have feelings for her. You don't have to be unfriendly to her or not speak to her, but realize you can't be only a friend to someone when you want more. It will bother you when she talks about other guys, as you desperately try to read meaning into her every word and action. You'll end up feelings hurt and resentful, even though she never lied to you about wanting to be friends only.

This girl may not do this, and it's not pretty when someone does, but the one thing to be sure you don't become is her 'unboyfriend'. Either be an infrequent acquaintance or a platonic friend---but do not be her 'cuddle buddy', do not be her confidant, do not spend hours talking on the phone with her, do not flirt or flatter her, do not pay for her share of outings together (go dutch instead). Again, she might not act this way. But if she starts to behave this way towards you, be firm but clear that you are friends only--just as she said.

Answer 4

• One does not simpily get out of the friend zone my friend. You should be commended for sticking up so long. Just ask them. It will either be a yes or a no. Simple.

• When someone just wants to be friends with you then you are either going to have accept that answer or move on. Sometimes the chemistry is not right between two people. No matter how much your heart aches start dating other people and perhaps there will be some chance your friend may view you in a different light and, if they don't then you will be free to meet that special someone that should be in your life.

Answer 5

Just find another girl. You cant make anyone love you back bro.

Answer 6

get closer and friendlyier

Be a better friend and impress her, soon she'll start having feelings for u

Answer 7

Just be honest and tell her how you feel about her. Maybe she feels the same way too.

Answer 8

Become really good friends with her and if its meant to be she will like you back :)