First, I'm always concerned with someone who wants a baby because he or she is "bored". People often use that term when they don't understand that their REAl problem is clinical depression. If you characterize yourself as bored, perhaps it would be good to talk with a counselor before you bring a life into the world. Many people who believe that a child would make their lives better find that the opposite is true. A child can end up being a real problem to someone who is depressed or easily bored. Once you have a child you find that you can't do many of the things that you do now without thinking twice about it. On the other hand, if your boyfriend is not even ready to commit to a marriage, what makes you think that he'll think a child is a good idea? Yes, he may agree with you "Intellectually", but at an emotional level, is he really ready for such an overwhelming change in his life? Remember that once you have a child, your life isn't really your own any more. You're responsible for that person, no matter what you want for yourself and no matter how wonderful or how rotten the child turns out to be.
Maybe because he is unhappy about something try talking to him
I love you.
Say that you want to be with him because you love him
then he's really not worth it... sex is something that should be saved for when you're ready... don't have sex just because your boyfriend says he wants it
This is fairly obvious because they think you will do something with them because they aren't there. It's really a trust thing, so... think about it.Really...
talk to him about it,then u do something he really likes.
if he goes out his way to be with you or do something for you.
He has to like something about you that really makes him want to stay with you.
If you really want something, go for it.
just because he is your boyfriend doesnt mean you automatically love him..
You should say something like, "You must not really like me because you don't really talk to me.." or maybe, "How would you feel if ignored you?"