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My mother suffered from (undiagnosed) Narcissistic Personality Disorder. During the last years of her life she showed signs of Dementia. My step-mother (my father knew how to pick his women!!) has been, for her entire life, a full blown narcissist with all the traits of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. She has recently (she is 78) been diagnosed with Vascular Dementia. I have no idea how to cope with it. It is soul destroying to have to deal with her.
First, you should read up on the disorder. There are dozens of good websites sponsored by well known hospitals and other respected institutions that sponsor web pages devoted to narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder. If you have a good understanding of narcissism you will have the knowledge to deal with it more constructively.First, you should read up on the disorder. There are dozens of good websites sponsored by well known hospitals and other respected institutions that sponsor web pages devoted to narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder. If you have a good understanding of narcissism you will have the knowledge to deal with it more constructively.First, you should read up on the disorder. There are dozens of good websites sponsored by well known hospitals and other respected institutions that sponsor web pages devoted to narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder. If you have a good understanding of narcissism you will have the knowledge to deal with it more constructively.First, you should read up on the disorder. There are dozens of good websites sponsored by well known hospitals and other respected institutions that sponsor web pages devoted to narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder. If you have a good understanding of narcissism you will have the knowledge to deal with it more constructively.
Yes. I have been to see a psychologist for help with my 69 year old mother-in-law, who, according to my husband, was diagnosed with bipolar disorder in the 80's. According to the doctor many of these personality disorders can overlap. Without seeing my MIL personally, but hearing about her total lack of boundaries and abusive history with her own children and what she has subjected me to, she believes she is suffering from borderline/narcissistic personality disorder.
She has borderline personality disorder and obsessive compulsive disorder. ..... Pretty much a train wreck and awful mother.
Yes - My mother has this disorder - they hide this abusive behaviour very well - but believe me - it is so destructive - I would never knowingly choose to live with a narcissistic person - all they care for is themselves - this you would not know at first - they will try to destroy your life and have complete control over you, and abuse your children or loved ones - even pets. They constantly play with your emotions play people off against one another - they are compulsive liars - Its is a living nightmare!!
since i have a personality disorder, i need to see a doctor, stop having multiple personalities, and need to run around naked with my mother while eating rainbow genital shaped lollipops
Yes. many people confuse antisocial disorder with not wanting to be around people or socialize but in fact that is called avoidance personality disorder. Antisocial personality disorder is attributed with a lack of understanding of personal morals and rules and generally a complete refusal to adhere to social norms. some patients with severe antisocial personality disorder could steal money from their mother on her deathbed and would not see it as wrong.
Some do. It depends on how she has the family roles set up and where she's getting her narcissistic supply from.
There may be fewer books specifically tailored for mothers of narcissistic daughters because the focus is typically on the individual with narcissistic traits rather than their family members. However, general books on dealing with narcissistic relationships and setting boundaries may still be helpful for mothers in such situations. It's also recommended to seek support from therapists or support groups specializing in narcissistic personality dynamics.
the best solution would be to tell your children what is going on, and tell them the truth about their grandmother and aunt. Maybe get your husband/spouse to help you with this, if you have one. --------- Narcissism is a style of personality but may also be a personality disorder. I regard it as a sub-type of anti-social personality (psychopath). It is exceptionally difficult to treat because the individual will believe that it is you who has 'the problem'. In a way, this is true, because narcissists will create immense problems for anyone near them. 1/ Read articles and books on narcissism. Lend them to your children. 2/ Consult a Psychologist who specialises in personality issues. 3/ Follow their strategy carefully
Yes. Narcissistic Mothers always do.
Your mother has a severe mental disorder.