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She is being very honest with you although I am sure that it wasn't the answer you wanted to hear. I would continue to be friends with her, and perhaps, some time in the future she may see more in you. Right now she wants to be free and be able to see who she wants. If you can't handle being around her because of your feelings, then I suggest you move on and go out with friends and have a little fun. One day you will meet someone else. I had a good male friend and I felt we were like brother and sister, but it turned out his feelings were stronger for me than I could ever imagine. He finally told me, and like this girl, I told him the truth. It didn't injure our friendship at all although I am sure his feelings were hurt. We still managed to have together. Later, he met a wonderful girl, got married, has 2 children and they have been married for 36 years. He didn't let me stop him! Good luck Marcy I don't think you can..So treasure the friendship and find love somewhere else.

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Q: When you have been friends with a girl for a long time and you've told her you have strong feelings for her but she doesn't feel the same way how do you get her to see you as more than a friend?
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