Because you don't fully understand what caused it. If you understood completely, and were confident in your own skin, you'd be able to forgive. She did it because she needed love, she craved attention, she felt neglected, or hurt, or some other emotion. You need to talk -- not about what happened during the affair, because that's an image you'll never get out of your mind -- but about what happened, moment by moment, in her mind, to make it okay. What was she feeling about you at the time? What needs did she have unmet? What rationalizations did she make?
If you can have that conversation, without being defensive or accusatory, if you can cry together for the loss, then you'll be able, at some point, to forgive. Ten years is a long time to bear this burden. For both of you.Another AnswerUnderstand that ten years ago, she was in a different place to where she is now, things werent right for her, she made bad choices in life, hurt the person she loved yes. But now she has learned from this experience, grown from it, she understands the pain she has caused and knows how it feels to live with this eternal internal guilt, a guilt that has never been forgiven.
This woman has stuck by your side, living day in- day out with the knowledge of how much you resent her, have hated her even, knowing that deep down you have never forgiven her. I bet there has been many times that she has cried herself to sleep over this. And many, many times she has felt your disgust, your rejection, and felt your cold shoulder turned away her when she needed you most. And still she stays by your side? Can't you see how much she needs your forgiveness?
Isn't it time that you turned around and finally see this woman for what she is now - a strong, guilt ridden, rejected, hurt woman who pays every day for a mistake she made a long, long time ago, a mistake that has never been forgiven by the man she loves so much? Isn't it time you accepted the truth of what you now do to her every day? I think its time, don't you?
If you can't do this, then set her free from these chains.
kill ur self
Ryan giggs had an affair with Imogen thoas which was revealed in the Early 2000s and had an affair with his brother's wife, Natasha Giggs for 8 years which was revealed in 2011.
he locks them up in a majic net he just cant get his hands on ares
King Arther's wife had an affair with Sir Lancelot.
When he decided to cheat over and over again to gain his mistress he was already done with his wife for whatever reason. At the time the wife discovered the affair and realized the husband was more concerned with the mistress is the moment the wife should be done with him... Big mistake on his part!
maybe. If the affair is finally over and she is ready to recommit. If you threaten to leave her, it will shake her up and she will get out of the cloud of an affair. maybe. If the affair is finally over and she is ready to recommit. If you threaten to leave her, it will shake her up and she will get out of the cloud of an affair.
what do you mean should you let her have an affair. If you wife wanted to have an affair she does not need your approval. Did, you get her approval. You sound somewhat stupid.
As far as we know no, but he could have. All the public knows is that he had an affair with his wife Elin with over 20 women.
Word-of-mouth.If you think that your wife is having a affair is better to talk to her.
My father had an affair, and my mother found out, and no matter what an argument was about, my mother threw the affair in his face, every time, for the next 50 years. So the answer is ALWAYS and ANYTHING.
Sally Hemmings and it was more than an affair. His wife had died and some years after her death he and Sally got together. She had 6 children by him and they were together until he died.
no it was socrates wife!
ask her lmaoo
No, actually Thyestes had an affair with Atreus's wife.
He didn't have a wife but he was having an affair with Aphrodite, Hephaestus's wife.
No, it is never considered acceptable to have an affair with a married woman. Doing it with the wife of a relative adds the problem of disharmony in the family.
He probably does want to be with her..... but the wife (if she found out) uses her control over him to force him into not being with her. Sometimes it depends on how deep the affair with the mistress was.
my teacher's wife, starring tia carrere
Well it depends. If the husband and wife are married and another man comes and has an affair with the wife, than he can sue him. Only if the woman does not like the man. If she does then she the man can't, the wife and husband simply get a divorce.
With who? The only person I know for sure he had an affair with is Marie, his wife of almost forty years! Otherwise, only Justin knows for sure. :-) Justin Fan 1 <-----------aka Arline in Florida
She has an affair with Quagmire... "Giggidy Goo"