Why did your abusive partner scream when you returned his call this morning after being out last night and not answering the phone yet he didn't call when he said he would?

It's about contol, he perceives you as little more than a posession. Get away from him now. Find someone else. You may even need to find a way to protect yourself from him, such as moving out of state. If his abuse has reached the point you're describing, you need to start worrying.