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because the man who was abusive has very low self esteem and needs a woman to confirm his masculinity. They don't want to lose control over you, they need it to feel powerful. They need someone to control.

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Q: Why do abusive men sometimes act as though you matter so little to them and they couldn't care less if you leave but then if you do they try to win you back?
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