Why do girls call after break-ups?

Answer 1

calling after breakupbecause after all bad breakups the girl you dated probally still has feelings for you Answerdon't listen to them they want to f*** you!

they think that you are still going to be their friend and still talk to them as if nothing has ever happened or they just don't know how to let you go or realize that you are not going to get back together and have a problem with that or they blame themselfs for it.

Because some women ain't that bright.

i agree with the some women ain't that bright idea and the fact they want to be friends but before that they go out with you then they dump you and go back out with you there so f####d up its random

Answer 2

Some 'dumpers' do feel guilty and upset bad about a breakup, even though it's usually the best thing for both people involved. If he just called you once and hasn't since then, take it as more as a concerned, "Hope you're doing OK," call. If he has been repeatedly contacting you, chances are that he's checking up on you, in hopes he can keep you around as a friend with benefits or a back burner girlfriend or buddy (someone who he dates or hangs out with if he can't get the person(s) he really wants to date). If neither of those scenarios interest you, I'd suggest telling him you just don't feel you two should be friends at this time and avoiding his calls/contacts entirely.

Answer 3

If she initiated the breakup, it usually boils down to one of two reasons: she misses those 'friend' elements of you from your previous relationship and wants to keep enjoying them, or she is hoping to keep you on the back burner in case she doesn't find anyone better to date. More likely it's the latter. Basically, you believe that you're getting mixed signals, when in reality she doesn't want to date you anymore, but wants to keep you hanging around.

How to keep talking to her? Continue to chat when you see her or she calls you, but always keep it to just a few minutes and say that you are really busy and don't have a lot of time to talk. Then, get busy; keep your schedule filled. Don't seek her out or call her.

No more talking about your former relationship, no more flirting--- keep it to vague, friendly stuff, but not in depth and certainly not too 'interested'. Something you would do with any casual friend of yours you weren't interested in dating. If she tries to talk about your feelings or ask you questions about other girls, simply evade the question or change the subject. If she pushes, just let her know that you don't want to discuss who you are or are not seeing with her. Make it clear that you see her as a friend, nothing more.

If you make it seem like you have better things to do, then eventually you really will and will find that keeping in contact with her isn't really that important after all.

Answer 4

girls usually call after break-ups because they are still attached to the ex. even if they break up with you, they may still call, because they regret breaking up with you.