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Answered 2006-07-29 08:51:04

Some guys just want to get down to raw sex and nothing else. If they were to tell you that you'd probably tell them to take a hike so, they play it cool and even (sometimes) kid themselves into thinking they love you just so they can have a sexual relationship with you. Don't be too hard on yourself or feel foolish because one can't tell sometimes who are the bad guys or the good guys. Rule of thumb ... if a guy comes onto you hot and heavy after a date or two tell them you don't like it and want to work on the relationship first. If they don't bother to ask you out on a date again then you know they were only after sex and you've just saved yourself a lot of pain.

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