Why do guys flirt but not ask you out on a date and does that mean a guy just wants to be friends and not take you out?
Probably just shy
most of the time if a guy flirts and does not ask you on a date he is just shy or afraid that you will say no. Try turning the tables on him and asking him out instead. At least, this was why I would flirt, but not ask the girl out.
They do want to take you out it's just guys are shy sometimes.
Everybody Flirts Sometimes
If depends on the guy. Is he shy? Some guys are to just to shy to ask for a date. Does he already have a girldfriend? Is he gay? Consider the situation and take time to find out more about the person. Sometimes people just have flirtatious personalities. It doesn't mean they want a serious relationship. The best way to find out if a guy wants a date is to ask him. How will you know if you don't ask?
A view from the other side
Maybe. But I bet not.
An awful lot of people are afraid of rejection. Very often someone will give all the signs, but then be unable to work up the courage to the last yard. What, you ask, how could he be afraid of someone as nice as you?
Here's what's going on in his head. He's met this absolutely wonderful girl, and while he's managed to get up enough nerve to talk to her, he just can't quite ask her out. Because if he muffs it and she says no it will wreck the great time you're having together now. Or what if she's already going out with someone else? Someone that terrific must already be involved with someone else. Don't want to make a fool of himself. So he waits. Maybe next time he'll have a better opportunity.
Is that rational? In a probabilistic sense, not really. But it's the way a lot of people are. While I am way past having to go through the agony of asking girls out, I can certainly remember going through that. What I missed out on because I was too scared to speak up! The guys who fire on anything that moves get a lot more babes, but I'll wager that the more reserved ones make better companions. After all, they're probably not going to be out firing on someone else while you're not looking.
Only thing I can suggest is be patient. Be approachable. Be open. Maybe drop a subtle hint or two.
Look For Flirting and be nice to him
If her friends are girls and you go out with them and your girlfriend theres a chance that they will flirt with u. It will end very bad. Going out with just your girlfriend is much better, or if she really wants you to go with her and her friends, ask her if you can bring some of your friends, that way your girlfriends friends have other guys to flirt with, rather than with you.
Guys are sweet and honest but they care more about the friends they have then a girl (or guy) who they like. If it opposes any of their friends views they probably won't go into a relationship. Also, if it creates awkwardness then guys will probably also avoid it. Guys are complicated underneath and don't like showing it, you have to break the ice to understand them.
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i dont think girls flirt more than guys they just flirt diffrently I agree. Girls flirt in a different way than guys, and they tend to lay it on heavy. They giggle and flip their hair and act all weird to make guys like them, but it doesn't ever do anything except make guys think that they don't want to be themselves around them.
How do you know if a guys likes you but one of your friends said that her friend said that he likes her?
Ok so I've known this guy for about a year. We r pretty good friends but I want to be closer friends but just friends. I need a guys point of view on what I should do?
That depends on what type of guy you are talking about, if he is a complete ladies man, he would probably date you once and then dump you thus ruining you friendship. If he doesnt have a gf, then show that you like him, and want to be more than friends. If you flirt with him and he flirts back at you, then your gonna be fine.:)