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Why do some people like bondage or bdsm?


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July 15, 2015 3:24PM

Pleasure and pain are linked, pain sometimes causes pleasure to increase.

In short BDSM is a way for some to increase their pleasure. It's also because BDSM (or only bondage) is trust and more trust. It takes a lot of trust to put your life in somebody's hands.

BDSM is a fetish, and is quite normal. It's very normal to have rape-fantasies, torture and dom/sub thoughts. People tend to think it's very unnormal, but it's really not.

It's very important in BDSM that you have safeword so you keep it safe. BDSM can involve dangerous situations, and "no" is sometimes a very good yes. So, make a safeword you wouldn't normally use, like "Television" "Table" stuff like that, EASY to say. Signals can also be used.