Why do women have trouble getting over verbally abusive men?
It's hard for a woman to get over a verbally abusive man because the abuse was directed at her self-esteem and self-confidence rather than her physically. People look at a woman who's been physically abused and they can obviously see the injuries caused by the abuse, but with verbal abuse it's different because no one can see that you've been continuously that you're ugly, stupid, not worth the time of day, no one will ever love you and that the abuser is all you deserve. You believe it. You end up feeling so degraded that you can hardly function because it's all you've been told by someone who says they love you. To heal from verbal abuse a woman has to first get away from the abuser which is hard, then seek counseling where she can gain her self-esteem and self-confidence back. Then she must realize what was it that made her susceptible to an abuser in the first place. It takes years for a woman who has been abused to fully heal, but more so with psychological and verbal abuse because they are directed at the woman's mind and she begins to doubt herself. Only about 1 out of 2000 women abused are abused in just one form.
Who is more abusive men or women?
Men, because they are stronger than a women when they are a adult. It would depend on what you mean by abusive, as women can be more abusive verbally, which could result in a man getting physical. Cases where women are physically abusive, don't tend to be reported, as it is embarrassing for a man, also many believe they wouldn't be taken seriously.
What do you all think about a man who is verbally abusive to a women do you think they could change?
Are there books and videos available for verbally abusive men who want to change?
* The best way for an abused man to move on from a verbally abusive relationship is to seek counseling. Just like women, men may have lost their self respect; feel demeaned and ashamed (they are suppose to be the stronger sex) and he needs to find out why he stayed so long in the abusive relationship. Without proper counseling just like women, men can choose another abusive partner in the future and don't have…
Why are black men so verbally abusive?
A part of the reason is that Black men don't see their words as verbally abusive. Why? The taunts and teasing involved in "capping" or "playing the dozens" involves quick wit and the ability to talk about someone in a stinging way that is still humorous and makes others laugh. Men often play these word games with other men and they all seem fine with it. However, when those words are turned upon women and…
When do you walk away from a conflict?
You walk away from a conflict between you and another person when things are not getting resolved. You walk away or run if another person is going to abuse you verbally or physically. You walk away when the conflict is between other people, they are safe, and it is none of your business AND you have no way to help them or your help is unwanted. You walk away when the conflict is really trivial…
Will you be dry after your partial hysterectomy?
No, well I had a partial hysterectomy and and I still get very lubricated, I heard a lot of women also have trouble having organism, I have not had any trouble. I wonder if a lot of women get bored with there partners, I have been with the same partner for 19 years, but still no trouble getting wet or reaching organism.
What is the statistic of women who abuse men?
There are no true statistics of women who abuse men because decent men who know they shouldn't hita woman or be verbally abusive back to their spouse do not report abuse as often as women for fear that they will be labeled as being weak. Men don't talk to other male friends about being abused as most men think they should be able to handle a woman. Easier said than done!
Why would an ex boyfriend become verbally abusive?
* Because he is not confident in himself. He has a low self esteem. It is their only defense, because they have been hurt in the past. They feel this is there only way to feel in control, and to protect themselves, to the point of verbally abusing that person whom has hurt them. That is their defense. * Abusive people (includes women) are the way they are because they generally have been brought up…
What are the signs of an abusive woman?
Abusive women generally follow the same patterns as abusive men, with some small differences. They may call you abusive, and attack you because of your sex. This is especially the case with feminists, and women who refer to themselves as 'empowered'. After they have suffered from abuse these women turned into abusers themselves in an attempt to prove that their previous abuser has no control over them. Of course, this only proves that their abuser…
Do women stay in abusive relationships because is their fault?
Woman always try to give excuses in order to stay in an abusive relationship. If your in an abusive relationship then get out of one. It does not matter if you love them if they are hitting you they don't love you. There is no reason for a woman to stay in a abusive relationship. If they are abusive then they are blinded.
Why are men more abusive than women?
It has been the male's role in most animals for millions of years to hunt, so violence is more imprinted in men than in women. Also sexism has exsisted since the first ever civilisations were formed and although the equality of men and women is more accepted in modern society, tens of thousands of years of this single idea seems to still linger in abusive relationships and families today. The male still feels suprerior to…
How do you handle your abusive husband 's treatment of you?
I was verbally abused for years and never even realized it. It seemed I could never please him and if I actually did, he found something else wrong for me to "fix". One day on Oprah or Montel I saw a guest who was an author and she was talking about all the symptoms of an abusive relationship. I immediately went out and bought her book and my life changed for the better from then…
How do you start over after a verbally abusive relationship with a women?
It's wise to take some time out for yourself after a verbally abusive relationship because you have lost who you are. Give yourself time to get to know yourself and what you are capable of doing. Start going out with friends; have fun; take a vacation with your buddies (can be a long weekend and not too expensive.) Enjoy being single again and don't rush to find another girl for a few months at least…
Why should women get out of abusive relationships?
Women should get out of an abusive relationship because it may escalate from emotional abuse to physical or sexual abuse, sometimes even murder. No one deserves to be abused and to stay in an abusive relationship is not worth it. If you are being abused, please leave and find help, especially if you have children, you need to protect them too.
Are woman considered just as violent and abusive as men?
Men are much stronger than women and yes, abusive women out there can be just as violent because they are much more sneaky about violence towards their mate and some women have been known to hire someone to 'get rid of their husbands' (do their dirty work for them) but on the whole, there are more men that abuse women.
Why do women seek out abusive men and what makes a man abusive?
Many times, women don't "seek out" abusive men necessarily, but women are often attracted to "bad" boys, and that is just the way it is, no reason for it. And of course those bad boys could end of being highly abusive. Men are abusive when they control everything in a their parter's life. There is physical abuse, and emotional abuse, and many other types. If you ever feel threatened or unsafe, that could be a…
Why do women seek out abusive men What makes a man be abusive?
What makes a man abusive is that they hurt you on purpose. Most reasons they do this in the first place is because they are small tempered and if you anger them you won't be happy. As for the women seeking i don't think that has ever happened. In most cases you can't tell if a man is abusive by looking at him or even talking to him. Also no one in there right mind…
What are the signs of an abusive relationship?
The top 10 signs of an abusive man. If your partner exhibits one or more of these signs, it may be time to reevaluate your relationship and seek help or get out. 1. Jealousy & Possessiveness -- Becomes jealous over your family, friends, coworker's Tries to isolate you. Views his woman and children as his property instead of as unique individuals. Accuses you of cheating or flirting with other men without cause. Always asks where…
Is domestic violence a psychological disorder or a form of male chauvinism?
Domestic violence in men (and women included) is a psychological factor and the high percentage of that psychological disorder is the environment in which they grew up in. If one or both parents argue or hit one another or the male (being the stronger sex) is physically violent to the mother (children can be included in this physical abuse as well) then that is a learning pattern which the children are left with and they…