Why do women seek out abusive men and what makes a man abusive?
Many times, women don't "seek out" abusive men necessarily, but women are often attracted to "bad" boys, and that is just the way it is, no reason for it. And of course those bad boys could end of being highly abusive. Men are abusive when they control everything in a their parter's life. There is physical abuse, and emotional abuse, and many other types. If you ever feel threatened or unsafe, that could be a sign of abuse and you have to get out of that relationship immediately before it becomes something you'll regret. Your "man" WILL ask for you back, but you just have to stay strong and listen to your heart!
What makes a man abusive is that they hurt you on purpose. Most reasons they do this in the first place is because they are small tempered and if you anger them you won't be happy. As for the women seeking i don't think that has ever happened. In most cases you can't tell if a man is abusive by looking at him or even talking to him. Also no one in there right mind… Read More
If a man is abusing his girlfriend and or wife, then he will more than likely be abusive to all women. It is a mind frame, women to him = abuse. This is not true in all cases but in most of them. Read More
Men, because they are stronger than a women when they are a adult. It would depend on what you mean by abusive, as women can be more abusive verbally, which could result in a man getting physical. Cases where women are physically abusive, don't tend to be reported, as it is embarrassing for a man, also many believe they wouldn't be taken seriously. Read More
An abusive man (emotional,physical, etc.) will seek insecure woman.Woman who are not independant. Someone to take care of their needs.And that is it, someone to satisfy their needs. An abusive man can not change, a woman can not change him. He has to change himself. He had to do it all alone, if he really wants to recover.I really wish all the ladies in abusive relationships strength. That is what they need to leave. Read More
I think it has something to do with the fact that some women want a "manly man". One that is rough and rugged and can do things that "men are supposed to do". More often than not these 'manly men' are abusive as well. Best Answer usually the abusive men are the ladies man at first and all they really want to get in your pants so if you reject him or her then they… Read More
Would an ex abusive man seek revenge and be mad if you finally got the backbone and humiliated him in public and if you treated him in a patronizing manner?
Anyone abusive or not would get mad if you humilate them in public that only makes you abusive why would you want to be abusive or humilate some one when you know how that feels? GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE.The best way to make an abusive person wake up is when you completley dismiss them from your life and not let them have any effect on you what so ever and you are happy and… Read More
A man is either a verbal or physical abuser and there are no exceptions as to what woman he is with. An abusive man can be very charming and even popular, but sooner or later his true colors will show and he will go back to his abusive behavior. However, there is a small percentage of men who will treat their girlfriend or wife very well, but may seek out a prostitute and take his… Read More
What do you all think about a man who is verbally abusive to a women do you think they could change?
If he is willing to, possibly. If not, not a chance. Read More
* The best way for an abused man to move on from a verbally abusive relationship is to seek counseling. Just like women, men may have lost their self respect; feel demeaned and ashamed (they are suppose to be the stronger sex) and he needs to find out why he stayed so long in the abusive relationship. Without proper counseling just like women, men can choose another abusive partner in the future and don't have… Read More
The top 10 signs of an abusive man. If your partner exhibits one or more of these signs, it may be time to reevaluate your relationship and seek help or get out. 1. Jealousy & Possessiveness -- Becomes jealous over your family, friends, coworker's Tries to isolate you. Views his woman and children as his property instead of as unique individuals. Accuses you of cheating or flirting with other men without cause. Always asks where… Read More
Generally a verbally abusive woman has control issues and she will carry them into most relationships. However, there are a few women that are verbally abusive to one or more men, but may meet a man that she is not verbally abusive to as they are better suited for each other. Read More
I think a man putting there hands on a women is sickening. No man should touch a women in any harmful way. They are cowards if they do. Men today that abuse women are the ones that are dealing with issues with themselves. They hit a women to feel more powerful and incontol. They could have anger issues, jealousy issues or have past family abuse. A man that hits or even comes close to touching… Read More
How long will i be depressed until the Asian woman i admire gets my bus again it feels like depressions can be fatal?
Seven days. After that you will recover your senses and seek out some suitable friends of your own. A: This type of thinking has only a type of insane people. Actually for you Asian woman is a second class of human being. Asian women will never be respected. You have no compassion with Asian women. That is why man uses the word admire to get Asian woman and she have to do all ,what a… Read More
It's extremely high. Abusive individuals are controllers and like "things their way" and we all know children are just learning and don't always do as we would like them to do, so no, absolutely not should an abuser raise children. Abusive individuals more than likely learn their behavior from their former environment and it's a chain reaction that could have gone on several generations before and it's about time to break the chain. If the… Read More
Physically abusive? Call the cops. It is no more acceptable for a woman to beat a man then it is the other way around. Or leave her. Dont put up with that. Verbally/Mentally abusive? Let her know how she makes you feel...ask her why she treats you like that. If she doesnt stop....again....leave her. Read More
Women seek to complicate their lives, Men seek to not! Use the KIS theory "KEEP IT SIMPLE" If you make things complicated for your man, It will never take you in the direction you wish to go. It will always be counterproductive. Read More
I believe that men are interested in married women because they do not have to deal with the women after their deeds are done. Just like when single women seek out married men because when the man goes home it is the wife who has to deal with him. She has gotten what she needed from him whether it is sex or cash. All in all they can see as many men and women that… Read More
not always but some time they can be both Read More
Women are paid less than men in the same jobs. Generally a woman makes 79 cents on the dollar that a man in the same job makes. Read More
They can affect the mind of a child in numerous ways. A daughter may grow up and unconsciously seek an abusive man, or an older man to replace the role of her father. Emotional abuse rips families apart, and can cause damage for generations. In fact...you are probably a few generations down the list. The abuser was probably once the abused. Read More
He is a drunk, or a druggee, or that he is just plain a lost man, without Christ and without peace and happiness. a man can and will be abusive if he is insecure. He is controling and doesnt trust anyone. If he holds grudges he can become abusive. I lived it. Read More
Because women likes to know that her man is strong and fit!! And it makes them look muscular! Read More
She loves the man that is abusive. Read More
* Yes, a man can change if he's a cheater by getting psychological counseling, but some men are in denial and some believe it's a given right for a man to cheat. If you don't seek help then you will gain a bad reputation and have difficulties with women or in relationships with women. Read More
* This could be a warning that he will be abusive in the future. If you don't want to end up dead or seriously injured, it would be a good idea to get out of that relationship now. * No man should ever hit any women! This is abuse! If a man gets frustrated by the actions of a woman he is free to leave that relationship and not reduce himself to abusing women. It… Read More
A woman can become pregnant through physical contact with a man Read More
Sex otherwise why would it be something they want from women and not from men? Every man is different, so every male is seeks his own unique combination of many different things. The ideal female is different for every male. When men and women say what they want in the opposite sex, you can pretty much disregard what they say, because when people talk their heads are talking. But it is heart that falls in… Read More
Money, and or the man has poor performance in the bedroom, others would be that the man is not satisfying her emotional needs Read More
When a man dates much younger women. The woman who dated the older man is called a "Golddigger" She just waits until the guy dies and so she makes a profit. Read More
Statistics currently say 'yes'. Or at least, women are less afraid to report it. There is an obvious stigma about a man reporting a woman for abuse, although it does happen. This is known to happen after a man has grown up in an abusive environment as a child, and then unconsciously seeks another to abuse him. Read More
For a man, he would not have the mother to be a good role model on how he should treat women. For the woman, she would not be able to have a mother to guide her in becoming a confident female. The effect of having an abusive maternal relationship could take years to sort through. Read More
Men (and Women) can be abusive (physically or mentally) for many different reasons. Most abusers were abused themselves: usually as children. Reading in depth psychological research could help further your understanding. Most abusive partners - in relationships- feed on hurting the other person and then making it "all better." This is a control mechanism. The one who hurts you is also the only one who makes you feel better. Most abusive people are insecure and… Read More
Generally, to do comparisons to their own man. This is usually done to support their choice of partner, and not to seek a new partner. Read More
In sex a women generally take the man's penis and do oral sex, the man also does the same job with the women's vagina. Afterwards when the man and women feel the sexual urge the women makes the phose and man inserts penis into vagina and both enjoy the sex. Read More
It is possible, but in many cases this takes a lot more time and energy to say that you will stop. Usually most abusive people will not admit that they're being abusive, some people do. When you're abusive you may try to stop, and then it will just appear again, that you've done an abusive help. To ensure that a man is not abusive anymore, you should go see some kind of person for help. Read More
The beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. So what one man finds hot in a women another man will not find hot. Read More
The lack of a positive male figure in early childhood could possibly affect how a man views relationships and women?
yes because just as daughters seek there mothers guidance, boy seek there fathers advice. So if a man is beating his wife/girlfriend constantly in front of a boy, that will make the boy feel that its right to hurt women. this happens predominatly in the black and Latino communitty. Read More
Women likes men who make them laugh because it indicates that the person is jovial and happy go lucky. Read More
* It's possible if their new partner has a laid back demeanor and can handle the anger outbursts of the verbally abusive partner, but the statistics are extremely low on this factor. Verbally abusive and controlling men have generally grown up in this environment and these are learned habits, or often times a feeling of having no control at the time they lived at home and later in life the anger and rage surfaces. For… Read More
The mindset of a man who makes obscene phone calls springs from that is reacting to frustration and inadequacy and has an inferiority complex. Obscene phone callers are suffering from feelings of isolation and have an inferiority complex. They consider making these types of phone calls to women as the only way they can express themselves sexually to women. Read More
No, transgender men should not qualify, but transgender women should certainly qualify. Note: A transgender man is Female-to-male. A transgender woman is male-to-female. Read More
Can a man from non-abusive upbringing become an abuser if abused by a partner who grew up in an abusive home with no therapy at all?
it is possible Read More
Because they want your pity. This is suppose to make you feel guilty and stay with him. Read More
If you understand that the abusive man is really after power you can recognize that making someone look like a fool is part of the effort to maintain control. Read More
If a man showed abusive signs early in the relationship but now acts mentally healthy what are the chances he is still abusive?
if he want to commit sadist acts with you such as murder, bondage, or bestiality, then he is prolly still abusive. Read More
Most likely. If your husband has hit you he is neither a real man nor has he any respect for you. A man does not lay his hands on a woman or on a child with intent to harm. Physically abusive men usually remain abusive. Run girl, run! find a real man that loves and respects you. Regardless of his promises your best bet is to get away and seek protection. There are several organizations… Read More
Yes,she can feel.You can feel that easily,that even makes women horny. Read More
Do girls like a guys if they are sensitive and cry a lot and are true to themselves and tell you everything?
That's true, but sitting down with your man makes a whole lot of a difference. Maybe he had a rough childhood. If a man keeps their emotions hide away or if a man doen't cry than he's really not a man. A man isn't afraid to be himself. A persons emotions are very important and they shouldn't be shoved away. Men the cry are great because that makes a women feel better about themselves. When… Read More
He was abusive. Read More