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Leave, it will be hard. But what could be harder than being abused and staying.
People stay in abusive households for a variety of reasons. They may be afraid of what will happen to them when they do leave. They may still "love" the person and will stay in hopes of them changing. They may be threatened into staying or they may believe that they have no where else to go.
People can't leave them because the person who is abusive to you will not let you go anywhere.
If you leave him, then it doesn't matter what he does. It wouldn't be called cheating if you left him. If he is abusive, then you should leave him.
If you can leave him - do it now.
LEAVE!!
Many BFs, or boyfriends, are not abusive. If a boyfriend is abusive, the girl should leave the relationship and file charges. Do not keep going back to an abuser.
I do not mean to be abusive with you, but frankly it sounds like you are being abusive with her. Get a grip and tell her the marriage is over, and then you leave. If you don't want her with you, you have to ask yourself why you are still there.
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Move to Italy in the night
You resign when you leave or separate from an organization. If you didn't leave on your own then your employer terminated you.
If a friend were in your situation, what would you advise?