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Why does your abuser tell you to get a job but then when you do he seems unhappy that you do?

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2005-09-28 21:43:53
2005-09-28 21:43:53

ABUSE HAS ALOT TO DO WITH CONTROL. WHEN YOU DONT HAVE A JOB AND THEY DO THEY FEEL IN CONTROL AND USE IT AGAINST YOU BY THROUGHING IT IN YOUR FACE. BY YOU GETTING A JOB YOUR TAKING CONTROL AWAY FROM THEM AND THEY DONT LIKE IT. Thanks so much for your input.

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