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Why does your husband stay when he clearly wants out of the marriage?

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2005-12-27 20:51:29
2005-12-27 20:51:29

YOU SAY HE CLERALY WANTS OUT? HOW CLEAR IS CLEAR? DID HE SAY IT ?PROBABLY DIDN'T MEAN IT JUST TALKING TO BE WASTING AIR. OH HE DID MEAN IT AND HE'S STILL THERE? OH...UM...NO PLACE TO GO, CHILDREN, HAVE HIS CAKE AND EAT IT TOO, IT'S CHEAPER TO KEEP HER,LESS BILLS FOR HIM , DOESN'T HAVE TO COOK , NOBODY WILL PUT UP WITH THAT "STUFF" BUT YOU SWEETHEART,ETC.ETC.ETC. MAYBE WHAT YOU DID IN THE BEDROOM GOT HIM STUCK...(SMILE) He is scared to leave, but wants to leave. He may also still care for you and doesnot want to hurt you or the kids. Marriage is sometimes an obligation and this is how he feels obligated to stay.

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