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Like the others, my best guess as to what he is thinking is that he wants to know where you are. And, his preference is that you are home and babysitting (except: if he has custody and you are a stay at home "Mom" then, it is not babysitting). We cannot often know what others are thinking, but you can get strong indications from the other person's actions. If you want changes, then you will have to ask for them AND leave if you don't get a reasonable action soon. The circumstances you describe are not reasonable, given that your friends are good to the tyke and that fun does not endanger the child. It sounds like he is just using you for a free babysitter. You either need to leave him or to sit him down and talk with him. Good luck and God Bless:) You bet he is using you as a free babysitting service and he is also extremely controlling and it wouldn't surprise me if he eventually turned abusive. By not letting you go out or have friends in he is controlling you. Don't be afraid to get some self confidence and get a little angry at being used and tell this guy to take a hike and then leave! Things won't get much better. Good luck.

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